1. a # close isn't in fact a CLOSE.

2. there is only ONE TYPE of CLOSE: SEX.

3. a KISS CLOSE is NOT a CLOSE. it's a RAPPORT BUILDING TACTIC. just as pulling
the back of her hair or biting her neck are not HAIR PULLING CLOSES and NECK
BITING CLOSES. They are RAPPORT BUILDING TACTICS

-->so you have to build a time bridge

if u didn't know what's a time bridge, just ask

Some LOCATION TIME BRIDGE examples:

1. "I'm picking up some shoes at tomorrow. Come keep me company and we can
window shop."

2. "I've got to drop off some stuff to my sisters. Come keep me company for the
drive. I'll pick you up @ X:XX pm."

3. "I have a dinner party in 2 weeks. You HAVE to come!"

Notice how you already have a REASON to SEE eachother in PERSON again. If you
just got the #, you'd have to TRY to convince them to see you again. In a
LOCATION TIME BRIDGE, you don't even need to get her #. (If she flakes and
doesn't meet you at the LOCATION you specified, don't think a # would have made
the situation any better - at least you KNOW she isn't interested. don't get
pissed if you get stood up; it's better to get stood up than to deal with 2
weeks of phone blurring). So you don't need to exchange #s. Exchanging #s
conforms too much to the stereotypical DATING FRAME. If she won't meet you
again, then the problem was with your not building enough rapport in the first
place.

In the above examples (if you have other example LOCATION TIME BRIDGES, please
post), the first two examples do not require you to get her #. you MAY, but I
don't recommend it. Just make sure the locations you choose are conveniently
near your house or where you plan on being anyways. don't go out of your way to
meet a girl who MAY flake on you. In the 3rd example, you may get the #. You've
got 2 weeks to put together a dinner party! or better yet, call her the next
day and use the phone to establish greater rapport. and maybe construct
opportunities to have her meet you at a LOCATION at a specific time.

The point is, if you've built enough rapport to get her #, then it HAS to be
enough to SEE HER AGAIN. If you get the # but she DOESN"T want to see you again
in person, that's a # that will BLUR anyways.

hope it helps, any other suggestions and feedback would be appreciated

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