I've been following a rather popular as of recent thread on here, and I kinda wanted to put some thoughts out there.

Some people, my say that the game isn't 100% effective. Some people live their lives by it, and some people let it CONSUME their lives. So what is the game to you? Has it changed you? Has it made you somebody your not proud of? Someone who's never turning back and has found the life they've always dreamed of?

I feel like a lot of people go to the clubs, and only have all this canned material and no substance. They don't put themselves in the game.

So many of the routines are useful, so many of the lines I've learned are golden, and many of the tactics I've learned have changed my life, but the opinion I more than anything wanted to share, and hear your thoughts on is this one...

So many people change COMPLETELY in the environments where the game can be applied (I know it works anywhere, but I'm primarily talking about clubs/bars). People become like robots reciting lines, using canned material, and trying to be smooth, and they wonder why this all comes off to women as artificial.

The art if pick up shouldn't DEFINE you. It shouldn't JUST be lines and JUST routines. So many people don't add their own feeling and personality to their game. In other words, when using lines and canned material, you need to add YOUR OWN twist to it, and not just recite it. The whole idea behind the game (Or at least mine) is to get the women attracted to YOU. Not some social robot who after 15 minutes of lines runs out of things to say, or just comes on with a line that's completely inappropriate for the situation he's in because he chose to do what he what he was told to, as opposed to using personal discretion/common sense.

Make yourself a legend! Be your OWN PUA. Forget the Mysterys, forget the Styles. Learn what they have to teach, but don't become them.

As a musician, I could listen to a CD and tell you all the musicians on it. Because even though all of the musicians learned how to play their instruments the same way, they all express musically how THEY feel, how THEY play, how THEY sound. Whether your art is Pick-up, music, magic, or anything at all, it should be you. Your game should be YOURS and yours alone. A guitarist or a singer could both play/sing the same note, on the same instrument and sound completely different from one another.

So make that your game. Use the lines, use the routines, learn everything you can. But perform it as you, not someone else.

This is the best post ever. I completely agree with you.
That's also the best advice ever.

Awsum post mate totaly agree, this community and the Game made me who i am and ive never been happyer. It gave me the tools and i created the masterpiece lol

All the best, Saint

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a very interesting post indeed.

as an early-stage gamer, i have had some feedback, sayign that my openers and lines sounded slightyl, rehearsed/staged...i see that as somethign i need to work on. Yes it has changed the way i am when im out & about. before i was always looking for opportunities, but now im taking opportunities

Excellent post, couldn't agree with you more. People have to find ways to move from rehearsed game to natural game. At the beginning (and that's where I am), one needs these routines in order to have something to say and keep things interesting. And it's important to understand the basic guidelines on sarging. Then, it's up to each pua to invent his own game and do it without planning it.

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Always fun to read a positive post!

Goods stuff bro!

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being reasonably new to this i belive using some canned stuff is a good starting point to get you interacting with people. But I do understand that coming up with your own stuff is very important. If you just reherse canned material it can come over unatural and rehersed.

Im hoping when am more farmilliar with everything im going to be adding my own stuf into material and work on my natural game.

Good Post!

A very intellectual yet very timely post. I believe that people need to grow out of being that man who approaches for sex. Show your best self to women and they will come flocking. I too see very robotic people at night clubs and all over just spitting out routines. But when you really think about it we were all robotic at one point in our game. Even the best of the best had to start from somewhere but then they personalized it and got better and now are masters of their craft.

Crazy Monkey