hey guys...I am still starting out so bear with me

I'm just wrapping my head around the push-pull concept for the first time this month. Realizing that, as an AFC, I have always done too much push with girls and nowhere near enough pull.

Okay, now that I am getting the concept, I need some actual pull techniques. The only one's that instinctively come to me are "leave a girl alone for a few hours/days," which by the way doesn't come naturally cause I tend to smother girls when I like them, which is a whole other problem. Oh, and negging alot.

So, I was hoping, can you help me come up with "pulls" for the following situations?:

1) Just finished a first date. went really well. ended with a kiss. pull?

2) Just met girl at the pizza place. she was really feeling me; got her number. even called her right there on the spot to be cute (and too check if it was a real number). pull?

3) Girl and I are feeling each other, she asks me to come see her during her lunch break. In the parking lot of her job, she gives me a blowjob. pull?

4) I'm on a first date. its going ok. some playful banter is happening; some qualification. pull?

5) We've been on a few dates. Things are progressing towards boyfriend/girlfriend status. Making plans for the future and stuff. Too good to be true type stuff. Pull?

thanks in advance for your replies; you guys are always so helpful.