There is a gorgeous girl I have had sex with for few times, who is recently reconciled with her husband. We work together. She decided NOT to have any sexual affairs with me after that but same time remained very flirtious and playful. We’ve exchanged tons of text messages since but none of them lead to a sex. She also mentioned that from time to time she might be a “bad” girl, but so far for the last 2 months no sex happened.

We met few weeks ago at the parking lot, had some kisses and touches, but no sex. She said that she is going to call me soon so we can meet but not in the car. Two weeks passed – she never called. I played tight game with text messages all this time– but still no luck. I’ve decided to give up on her and completely freeze her out for the last three weeks. She WAS seeking my attention, giving me looks, glancing at me, tried to initiate few conversations, tried to impress me with hot new outfits. But I was ignoring and using jelosy tactics being surrounded by other gorgeous girls all the time she is around. I have a feeling she is up to something but afraid/not willing to make a step forward. I know for sure she likes me and seeking my attention. Me freezing her out – most likely going to lead her simply to give up on me.

Last convo we had is that she was saying that I am looking at other girls and she is jelous. I've naswered "Made them jelous, you could do better" She said "Ok, I will" So she was al dressed up for one week changing her outfits looking at me if I look at her. I was an ass and simply ignore the whole "fashion show" Should I award her for this behaviour?

The question is how to calibrate her and how to approach her and hopefully escalate this to some hot sweaty times?

Anyone?

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Freeze her out hard. If you are passing bye and she says" hi" say "hi" without looking at her and continue walking.

The fact is you don't necessarily have to react to everything a woman does, sometimes you have to slow down and good things will happen.

That way the ball is in your court and the tables will turn