Ok Here's the deal. There's this HB8 (Kinda reminds me of Natalie Portman) in my dorm, who is always followed by orbits (No problem, I just negged her and got through them... so she know's I stand out). However, when I ask to see if she wants to do something she is either going to class or is "too tired" to go. I've already used the "You Don't get out much, do you?" neg a lot. And I've done several DHV stories. (Idk how much this matters or not... but she's from the south... I've heard that girls from the south tend to be nicer/ more sensitive)

So wtf do I do, if she keeps rejecting them?

However, last night was good because she denied my request to take a walk with some people to a park, and I told her "Look, if you're gonna keep saying no, I'm going to have to stop inviting you to these things..." And she looked at me with kind of sad puppy eyes and said "No, don't do that!"

Stop asking her to get together on the spot and make plans instead. The more you ask the more you hurt your chances. By making plans she can't say that she's too tired-- if she says no then she's not interested and if she doesn't show up she's not worth your time.

Hmm..

I always use a medicine in these situations..

Raise her jealously levels.

Just that..

If still she just keep ignoring you, then its just not worth it.
Move to another B (like the true Natalie Portman )

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Got any ideas for DHV routines? I've just been using a lot of cocky funny and negs.

If you see her and it looks like she wants to talk/BS - simply tell her you can't have to meet some people at Victoria's Secret or Bed Bath and Beyond.

(when she asks who - say some girls that are looking for my opinion on pajamas or sheets - makes her think of intimate things without the obvious panties - chose a place that is chick centric - makes her realize there are other women you can and do spend time with and makes her realize they are comfortable enough with you to ask something that personal)

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

Yea, that's a good idea. I'll have to do that sometime.

It might be a lost cause now. There are signs you've got to look for
such as she's always claiming to be tired or busy when you ask her to go places is a HUGE HINT she's probably not interested. Does this girl ever make a counter offer to hang out with you at a later date when she can't make it because she is too tired or busy? It doesn't seem like she does. If she really liked you she would make every effort to hang out with you.
Stop inviting this girl to do things because it makes you look real needy.
So just move on man

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Yeah man, SouthernCross is right. I just graduated college this spring, and I let me tell you, before I discovered PUA material (around that same time), I had wasted months on end chasing dead leads just like the one you're unfortunately hooked on. I kept thinking "oh maybe next weekend, or maybe next time I ask her she'll wanna come out with me" and that's just not gonna happen outside of dumb luck. I go by a different philosophy now, which is "a girl is never busy, they just don't wanna make time for ME".

Just cut her loose at this point and we all know how hard it is if you've been crushing on this girl for a while. Even if you get angry or wanna call her out on evading you or whatever, it's better in the long run not to(DHV). The main point is that you need self conidence and tell yourself you deserve a girl that makes the effort to spend time with you. This chick doesn't.

this depends on how many times you've asked her. if it's more then twice or three times then you're a bit gutted mate, however if it's not that much, then you might be lucky. Make a plan as someone said above, say

"hey next weekend, me n some mates are going to _____" (make sure it's a kl place) was wondering if you want to tag along...DLV'ing her.

if she says no, she'll be too tired or w/e bs... say alright, your loss...then move on.