well i kiss closed, number closed this hb 9.5 last saturday, been txtin her for 2 days now. i dont want to go into ljbf thing bcos of that but at the same time i want to set up a date. how to lead the phone game, txting and stuff to set up a date? shes the kind of a girl that wants to rule the man, so ive been neggin her all the time like, doesnt seem to be workin tho. i know i can seduce her in person, cant rly do that on the phone. any hints would be helpfull! its kinda important to me, wouldnt care that much but she has one thing that attracts me into her big time and i want to give it a try

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Here's an example of a text I just sent out today:

"Want to have some fun? Wednesday afternoon I have some free time and have to pick out an outfit for a Mexican party, you should come shopping with me"

Some key features:
- you're TELLING her when you can hang out, you're not asking when she's available
- You portray yourself as being so busy that the only time you can hang out with her is while you're doing errands (this also works great for asking her to do groceries with you - for a girl like yours that needs to be negged, after you finish grocery shopping you can ask her, "so what are you gonna make me for dinner?")
- girls love to shop .. and even more importantly, they love to pick outfits .. which means a good chance that she'll join you (although this sounds like LJBF territory, you can easily frame otherwise).

I just had a second thought about your post:

Your negs might not be working because it has to be a push/pull. You neg while smiling and quickly change it up to a pull before she can even answer. If you neg too much and don't do enough pull, then you're going to come across as the kind of guy who needs to downplay others to compensate for low self-esteem.

One final word of advice: You need to adjust your frame. Chances are you're negging her and then analyzing whether or not you made the right choice. Women can sense this kind of analysis and it comes across as a lack of confidence. If you're going to neg her, or game her in any way, you have to KNOW that what you're doing is the right thing to do in the situation.

cheers mate, will try this stuff. regardless what happens i can let her turn into my one itis so im just gonna go out sarging what will give me some more indifference. ill see how it goes and ill let ya know whether it worked or not

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