i came up with and used a nice line to set up a friendship frame. it went down like this:

i was sitting on a couch talking to this HB7 and we were hitting it off pretty well, laughing, teasing, even a little bit of innuendo goin on. after a moment of silence while i sipped my beer i looked at her and said: "you know what, i like you, you're an awesome gal, you'd make a great friend". she kind of looked at me a little strange while laughing but in the end it perked her interest because we were then able to talk about some deeper stuff while she was really questioning my intentions.

Well, nice, but are you sure that all you want is friendship?

Carpe Diem!

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I agree with Paetar, you may have already put yourself between a rock and a hard place. You should have told her she would make a good lover instead of a friend. But, stay confident and you might be able to exit the friend frame and enter the fuck frame.... Good luck

I think it may work if you play it right. Lots of women want what they cant have. You just have to work harder now

-fuzz

actually David DeAngelo says that establishing a friendship fram can be quite useful. if you're flirting like hell but saying you want to be friends, she'll be totally confused, making you more of a challange to her. you can't be like every other schmuck or creep who instantly comes on to her sexually. you've gotta be sly, get under her skin and then make your move when she's comfortable with who you are.

It's true, you can become friends and eventually bed that woman who you are friends with. But, that takes time, to me that takes too much time.
By the time I have convince a girl to move past being friends I have most likely lost interest in her because of info she has conveyed to me while we are in the friend phase or because by that time I have entered 6 other girls into my roster that wanna be more than just friends...

And I don't blatently come on to girls like a rapist or sexual predator, I open them up, then I build comfort while subtly showing sexual interest, then I close and proceed accordingly. You have to be smooth, you can't come on too strong or you will become AFC. Read some books, and some more posts, take notes, you will come around...

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