| I got to know this girl from school, I only get to see her once a week in class and never really talked to her. Then came our freshman's bash at a local club. I was way peacocked that night, and I could tell she was giving me the looks, whenever I made eye contact, she shyed away.
As me and my friends left the club, I saw her and her clique. 2 of her friends were my friends and as we were outside the club, we had really fun conversation and I could tell I was getting good social proof. One of her friends was leaving, so I ran up to him and talked to him, I made him laugh and then gave him a good pat on the back before saying goodbye, she saw this. And I was sure I was getting good social proof, all this while, I have been avoiding eye contact with her and showed no interest.
I grabbed one of my friend's camera and was looking through the photos and laughing at the weird taste of her photos. Then, my target was talking to the owner of the camera in front of me, we were like a triangle, target to my left, camera owner to my right. My camera friend kept asking me not to look at her photos but I just continued teasting, at this point, my target said I should continue teasing her. I thought this was an IOI.
I couldn't remember clearly what happened after that, I just remember see our friends deciding where to go and she was standing alone to my right 2 metres away. So I thought, what the heck, I walked up to her and began some fluff talk, I asked about homework and how I forgot what to do (boring stuff, I didn't know what to say!), then my wing came to me and interrupted, apparently he didn't know I was interested in my target. He kept pestering me to get going but then, I saw this as an opportunity for a number close, so I just took out my handphone, passed it to her and blatantly asked for her number. She then passed me back my phone and pretended to forget her name and got her to tell me again. She then asked if my name was "Shockard", I then replied "No" but cut her with a "Just kidding" before she got embarrassed.
Day 2:
I got her MSN through SMS then told her I'll talk to her when I see her online. No reply.
She got online and asked who I was, I told her to guess and she got it right. No prizes for her though. I went on to 2 of my DHV story telling routines and asked if anything interesting happened to her lately. She just kept saying she is a simple girl leading a simple life. I told her she was boring and I was going to make her happy by doing the cube on her. She refused saying she was tired and I should do it some other time.
All this while, I didn't notice any signs of IOIs in the chat, where the f did I go wrong? So far, she has not told me she has a boyfriend but I know she does have one.
When she says she is just leading a simple life, does it mean a boring life? Maybe she is just bored with her relationship? All these are just my assumptions.
I don't know what my next steps should be, any advices? I am trying to seek a LTR with this girl. I have been searching for the right girl for 3 months and she's just perfect except for the boyfriend part.
Cheers.
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