I wanted to post this up, as this has gone a long way in helping me with my social interactions, and getting rid of those awkward silences and running out of things to say during a conversation. Hopefully you guys (or girls) will benefit from reading. It keeps conversations interesting without the need for any routines; just a concept of what cocky and funny is.

So how do you keep a convo flowing and constant? You can initiate a topic, or respond to something she says, whilst picking out the KEY WORDS in her response, and then you reply in a C&F manner. To me, this usually does the trick to keep the conversation flowing and it also helps keep the focus on the girl (she'll thank you for all the teasing attention!)..

For an example of where I have used this to turn a potentially mundane conversation into something slightly more engaging (Btw, this is all done in a playful manner):

I begin talking to her, and after a while the conversation begins to go silent.. then:
Me(or replace this with YOU): "So.. how are you?"
Her: "I'm ok, nothing much. How about you"
You: "___(insert name), there is ALWAYS nothing much about you. Me, I'm fine, I'm just wondering how you are always thinking about nothing?"
Her: "What! You're so mean!"
You: "Woah! I'm not being mean, now you've offended me. That's it, I'm not going to forgive you (cross arms and turn away)"
Her: "Aww... There, there, you cry baby."
You: "You're calling me a baby? You know babies sit around and do nothing all day. That kinda sounds like you!"
Her: ".....etc...."

Btw, you could also be kino'ing her whilst doing this!


The girl will usually either:
1) Be kind of shocked or speechless, or in fits of laughter - Take this as a sign you are doing something right, and continue mocking her!
2) Play along - This is great, because there are even more key words for you to pick out and use on her! This'll lift the vibe the two of you are creating
3) Be shocked and find it rude - If this is the case, you know you are overstepping the cocky attitude, or your voice projection, tone and body language isn't coming off right... So step back and re-assess what's happening. If your body language and voice tone is okay, she should respond either as 1) or 2) to you.


Another great method of conversation I love to do is to ask a question, listen for her reply, and then make a statement to her response C&F style (as the example). The most important thing remember is to pick out the key words she says.

This technque is insanely easy (if you're socially calibrated you will understand all this will come even more naturally to you) and can create many interesting and memorable moments from seemingly boring, mundane situations.


EDIT: btw, I am open to any flaws, critique and adjustments on my way of thinking.. I'm here for "self-improvement" .