Of all of the girls I have fallen hard for - who I could not get out of my mind despite my best intentions - all of them have done this: They should show an initial spark of interest and attention, they would increase this until it would be obvious they were very interested, and then, suddenly - all the signs of interest drop away rapidly.

Hot/cold, pull/push.

Holy jumping fucking shitballs. Excuse my language. It's insanely powerful psychologically. I have made women fall in love with me through using this - mostly unconsciously, sometimes consciously.

When it happens to me, as much as I understand the logical psychological processes of how this works, it's almost impossible not to think about the girl more.

You're automatically thinking about her more! Why is she ignoring me? What did I do wrong? Is she talking to another guy? I'll ignore her back! That'll teach her! And so on.

Here's an example of the last time this happened: a girl I know liked me, but I can honestly say I'd rather have a tug than bang her - she was a bit fat, probably not great in bed, not my type, didn't really like her personality.

Fine. Well, she went from showing strong interest to suddenly zero. She would not return texts - at all. Then I completely lost contact with her. Initially I didn't care.

But I started thinking about her more and more...and more. And to this day, it annoys me a little. If I had the chance now I'd BANG HER ALL FUCKING NIGHT LONG!

But that's just one example of many. Currently, I'm waiting on a response from a text message to a girl I slept with last night. She usually responds instantly, but it's been a few hours now and she's starting to play on my mind.

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fuck yea u hit the nail on the head there! its happened 2 me b4 now im going 2 use it 2 my advantage. cant believe its only jst occured 2 me y u dit up and wonder y they went cold [/list]

You are letting her be the prize with abundance or abundance mentality this won't happen. As for using it on women it is a freeze out and is pretty useful.

A mentality of abundance is extremely important. But the truth is, you have to do a LOT of wading and searching and trial and error before you meet a quality girl.

There are so many stupid, emotionally fucked up, manipulative, shallow, uncultured, uninteresting, retarded bitches out there.

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The “Four Fs” are the four basic drives that animals (including humans) are evolutionarily adapted to be good at: fighting, fleeing, feeding, and reproduction.

The freezeout is a great thing not just because she will miss you but it also:

1. Limits your chances of scaring her away.
2. Respects her integrity (even though she hates it at the time).
3. Gives you time to really check if there are any other worthy girls around.
4. Gives the relation a 2 way feeling, it is not only one persons choice but both.
5. Gives her the chance to invest.

Ezo

Haha I'm going through the same thing right now.

A girl I know started showing a lot of interest and then called asking to meet one day. I said sure but she called later to say she couldn't, (were still in high school and her parents are really strict.) So then after a few days I realized I really wanted to see her and started asking her if she'd hang out with me. She has a lot going on this week tho and is leaving soon on vacation and despite my best attempts I'm going crazy for her but dont think ill be able to see her. Im gonna start trying to reverse this around though. Maybe have her crazy for me by the time she gets back.

So true... I am still trying to recover from such a relationship... Well, therefore the question - what would be an alfa man reaction? In my case I see HB10 at work everyday, so gotta stay friendly/professional...

Ignoring back does not seem help a lot, negging - being ignored, push/pull - being ignored.... Whats left to have her want u?

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