Hello Again My PUA Brothers


I wanted to get you guy’s thoughts on girls texting while you’re in a conversation with them. It seems like I can get all the classic IOI’s and a girl is into me, but they text while I’m trying to talk to them for brief periods. Am I overeacting, I feel like if I try and talk to them while they are texting I am lowering my value by trying to gain there attention. Should I just stop talking to them for a while??? Advice.

Which brings up another topic, I’ve noticed that girls are just AMAZING “push-pull artist” they must study a girl version of pick-up-artistry, or its just hardwired into their make-up idk. I believe this is why guys go all crazy for girls to begin with. For example, a very very attractive female that I’ve been talking to for a while would act all excited to see me, scream my name in a crowd, and then when I went over to talk to her she gave me IOI’s but would fade in an out, varying her levels of interest, and interruptions with brief text messages.

These text message interrupts, make me feel like her text messages are more important than me, a feeling I think they want to create in order to make me chase them. On the inside I was very frustrated but I stayed cool, smiled, and talked to someone else next to me, and never re-intiated the chat.

How do you deal with this?? I want to keep there attention and imao it’s very disrespectful to text while in conversations, but I also don’t want to come across as whining for their attention. Any advice!!!

And how would you guys advise handling situations with girls who are obviously playing games, I hate games, I feel like a yo-yo (the emotion I’m trying to elicit in them to start at least). Is there any way to snap girls out of playing games??

(I am 18, gaming girls my age, so maybe maturity has something to do with it, do older 21+ girls do stuff like this too)

You need to come across and let her know "Hey thats not cool to be doing that in my presence, not allowed". But of course you cant use those words.

Ask em whats up with the texting? Various ways of doing this. Ask em Hey are you a drug dealer? Who are you texting your mom/dad?(should make her smirk)...figure out a few good lines for yourself to use . Why sit there and adhere to some BS like that if its disabling you from getting to her.

If in fact your trying to game her and she realizes it shes going to be texting or on her phone alot, trying to seem like everyone and anyone wants to talk to her and possibly to see how you handle the situation of her trying to blow you off. And I can guarantee some times the chick is infact texting about you in your presence(YES) to one of her GF's...cause how else could it possibly add up that every time shes in your presence that her phone is getting blown up to bits?

A real smart chick was running this routine on me, and I said hey whats up with all the phone activity are you a drug dealer....short pause and a smirk on her face as shes continuing to text...responds to me Yea i am actually what do you need(this coming from a girl that obviously does not deal). I sit looking at her puzzled and she says NO NO im just kidding im not really one. Then after that she never had it out again during that instance. Only reason I knew it was a front cause "to look" occupied i do the same shit when there's idle in between moments. Plus checking your phone twice in 30 seconds, without any notification that you received a message or anything sort of draws attention that your wanting people to think your important.

You could also run the, hey is that the **** *** phone...can i check it out? If your on a high note making it good with the chick this would be a good time to input your # and save it(if you can manage)...dont say you did it though. Just a cheap example as im sure in the moment you could figure out some other clever way to make a number exchange out of the ordeal. I'd say as well too if shes not obviously doing anything but just playing with it that could be a hint that she has it out hoping to grab your digits(if you do not have them already).

I just read your post.

"Ohhh i hate it when you get them texts from O2, really does my head in"

(swap the O2 for whatever the biggest service provider in your country is)

It is quite annoying when your talking to someone and they start texting in the middle of your conversations. I've seen the exact opposite too. Someone who won't do so when around their friends but takes like at least an hour to reply to your messages. Sometimes moreee

Either way their both mind fucks. One is annoying, and the other sorta puts you on the edge. Arg

i usually reach over and close their phone like if its a slider or just put my hand over the screen and say "hey it's family time!!" it works for me all the time.

If it's just you and her I would still call her on it to show that you're dominant and don't put up with rude behaviour (of course , don't tell her in a harsh way).

"Hey, you always do that when talking to people?" (smile) , (maybe she'll blush and feel guilty , so you can get control again) then follow it up with something interesting to show her that you're more interesting than the phone.

In a bigger set you can ask her friends something like "Is she always like this?".

Worked fine.

Just start texting your damn self- simple! Even if you arent really texting anyone- act like you are and as if you're having more fun texting that she is.

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Just say "I see a mate, come find me when your done" and get up and walk off.

If see does come after you it could be taken as an IOI
and when she does find you, if your with a female friend it should DHV and even make her jealous, hence making her work harder for your attention

I say "Hey wait a minute I don't give my number out to anyone that easily" to her friends "is she always this demanding?".

If she's isolated "Hey(kino) you don't have to text your mum to clean the place before I come over I've got to study for my gynecology exam tonight"

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Walk away. Go to a nearby shop and look at something in the window. This should let her know that it's not cool. She'll soon realise what's going on. This is one of my biggest pet peeves and if a girl continues txting she is kicked to the curb.

when she pulls out her phone and texts or whatever i pull out mine and do whatever until shes done, then ill say something like:
:aw thats cute you text your mom too, apparently when i get home theres a plate of cookies waiting, what about you.
hb: blah blah wasnt talking to mom blah blah
Me: wait dont tell me your dad makes you cookies
hb:laughs blah blah whatever

or instead of asking about her mom you can:
when she pulls out her phone you pull out hers and be like wait you can't cheat, i didnt give you a headstart, then cover her screen and go 3 2 1 and start pushing buttons on your phone really fast and intense like its some kind of texting competion and then after a moment say done and look at her and she'll be staring at you and do a victory dance and throw your phone to the groud like a touchdown. tahst a good one to make them laugh, and it focuses there attention away from whomever they were texting to you. and after the victory dance you can sit back down or whatever and be like, so i take it youve never been in a text competetion, at least your not a sore loser blah blah... just keep her intrested, and if she pulls out her phone again later be like oh you want a rematch huh?


also one time i was in class and this girl i had been gaming for a while switched our phones so she was doing whatever with mine and i was looking at hers, on hers i might have changed the background text banner to like my name or something random like french fries or apple pies idk, but she gave me my phone back without saying anything and later i went through the contacts and she did this(pretty clever i would say) for the name entry she would put like (lets say her name is sarah)
I love sarah!! 555 5555 (exce[t it was her real number
Sarah is my everything!!! 5555555
Sarah is the best 555 5555
sarah is my sunshine ....
sarah is beautiful....

she put like 6 or 7 of them in there i though wow thats awesome ive never thought of anythin like that, this is some good material,

so if you get a girls phone put liek pete is so hot
pete is ridiclously cool
pete is so0o0o amazing
i love pete
me and pete forever
pete loves me
pete is my bff
pete is the coolest everrr
pete is the best chef

and for each entry put your actual number, she'll get a kick out of it, dont tell her what you did when you give her phoen back then just leave, or whatever, she'll call

ask her if it's important ... then say that's a nice phone can I see it.

take the battery out and tell her she can get it back later, and neg her with a flirty push pull ... but point out that it is rude.