| Awesome Cold Read by Ray Devons
Can lead to a kiss close.
Here are the nuts and bolts of how it works. You ask them the following basic questions:
1.) “Imagine you are in a white room with no windows and no doors, how do you feel?”
2.) “What is your favorite color?”
3.) “What is your favorite animal and why?”
4.) “Imagine you are by your favorite body of water, like the ocean, or a lake, or a river, etc. How do you feel and what do you do?”
Now the idea behind these questions is that they are supposed to be able to tell you some things about a person’s personality. Here is what each question is supposed to reveal:
1.) How a person feels about death, or the experience of dying themselves if it were to happen.
2.) What kind of personality other people think that person has (usually when first meeting them). Like their “external” personality.
3.) What a person’s real personality is. Like their “deep” or “real” personality.
4.) How a person feels about sex, their attitude towards sex (or how they feel while actually having sex).
In the case of the 4 Secret Questions, you make sure the woman agrees with the first 3 interpretations of her answers, so that when you interpret her last answer as being very sexual, she has to agree.
So let’s take an example of how all this can work, with an innocent lead in to it all:
You: “So I noticed you are wearing mostly pink today, is that your favorite color?”
Her: “Yes, that and red and white”
Note that this is actually asking the questions out of order, but it’s important to do what is called “grounding” with this routine, so that it seems there is a reason for you asking it. The other way to ground this is if she says she has a pet, or if someone walks by in a public place with a dog, etc., you start by noting that in the conversation and asking question 3, i.e. what her favorite animal is.
You: “That’s cool, most people only have one favorite color. You are either a very complex personality, or a very strange one! Actually, that reminds me of the 4 secret questions. Have you ever heard of them?”
Her: “No.”
You: “Well, they supposedly come from Japan, and are what they call a “shinri testo”, or a “psychology test.” You already answered one of them, sort of. But you have to be an adventurous and brave person to do them, because they reveal secrets about you that even you maybe didn’t know yourself!”
Her: “Tell me, what are they?”
You: “OK, but you have to be sure you are adventurous, because depending on your personality you might even be embarrassed by some of what you learn.”
Her: “It’s OK, tell me!”
Note that here you have basically challenged her to prove she is brave and adventurous. Most people want to believe they are somewhat brave and adventurous, so in hundreds of tries with this, we have never come across a woman who says she doesn’t want to try. The importance of doing this is that it actually puts her in the right state of mind that helps in seducing her, but also sets up what is called “plausible deniability”. Remember, this routine gets the conversation of very sexual topics quickly, and this way you can say that you warned her she needed to be adventurous!
You: “The question is what your favorite colors are, and how they make you feel. So how do you feel about your favorite colors, what qualities do they have?”
Her: “Well, I like white because it’s pure and clean, and pink because it’s feminine, and red because it’s passionate.”
You: “OK, good answers. The next question is how you would feel if you are in a white room with no doors and no windows? Only 4 white walls, a white ceiling and floor, no way out.”
Her: “I guess I feel a bit insecure.”
You: “Insecure, so sort of scared you mean?”
Her: “Yes, scared I guess.”
See how there was some leading here? You actually lead her answer to a logical one, but she won’t really remember your prompting later when you give her the meanings. But the key is that you want her first answers to be close to what she would really feel so that she is more likely to believe the accuracy of the other answers. In this case, most people (and women in particular) are likely to be scared of death, so it makes sense. Now if she said she feels relaxed, you would not try to lead that to “scared” because it is too different.
You: “OK, so you feel scared and insecure. The next question is what your favorite animal is?”
Her: “I like dogs.”
You: “And how do they make you feel, what qualities do they have, what is it you like about dogs?”
Her: “Well, dogs are faithful companions, and they are very trustworthy.”
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