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| tonyg | PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2008 2:48 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Nov 27, 2008 2:29 pm Posts: 4 | | I tried to freeze out my target when she didn't comply with a question. I turned around and then started talking to her friend like I was just done with the target. She ended up dismissing herself from our chat. I realize I didn't have tight game in this set before I did this.
In the future, should I do a freeze out and talk to the friend for a few seconds or freeze out for a second or two and then go back to the target with the same question and not talk to the target's friend?
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| V1V | PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2008 6:22 pm | |
Joined: Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:05 pm Posts: 835 | | Your issue here isnt how to deliver the freezeout. Its establishing the interest before the freeze out. It comes down to this. Is she attracted or interested in you? If not then the freeze out defeats the purpose. As a result you freeze yourself out. Make sure you know she has enough investment in you before you freeze. _________________ V1V 
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| solid85 | PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2008 1:40 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:29 pm Posts: 8 | | ^elaborating on that, you obviously hadn't reached the hook point yet. you have to demonstrate higher value, build a rapport and establish an emotional connection before you can attempt a freeze out. when you turn your back on a stranger and close off a conversation, they could most likely give a fuck less...they don't know you, they have no reason to fight for your attention.
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