just wondering how to build A & C when im dancing with some chick in the club and also avoid boring her without having to shout too many words down her ear.

Didn't we talk about this? Learn how to dance haha. Its kind of simple! You don't have to be a superstar but just know enough.

You're already dancing with her, so there is comfort and attraction. Make sure you can dance and impress her with that. If you want to talk to her, make up some excuse to get off the dance floor like "I'm thirsty, do you want to get a drink?" They often say 'sure'. Usually after I walk off the floor with her I'll say 'Why are you still here, i thought you were getting me a drink?"

After that I judge it by her reaction, sometimes I don't even get a drink and just carry the convo with escalation and push-pull techniques.

*To get better at dancing, try to listen to more hip-hop and some club beats. it will improve your sense of beat and then just feel the music and practice small movements when you're alone. When your on the dance floor, whether you know the song or not, act like its been your favorite song for a while. Also, dont try and dance like they do on the T.V. shows, you end up looking like a retard and/or showing off if you can actually do those moves.

Keep it Smooth,

Poetry