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i know i should be opening women myself, but what are the signs women want to be opened in the day?
Just get your butt over there and open them. If you see someone you are attracted to you just open them. You are a man and attracted to women. You do not have to apologize for this, it's natural, right? GOOD.
When you are attracted to a woman it's a compliment in a way, wouldn't you agree? I knew you would.
Thus, why not just go over there and open her. Worst case scenario she walks away.
I can give you a list of different signs and so can others. They are going to tell you things like if she looks over at you, proximity, and other potential IOIs. I'll quote Sinn to make my final point.
"Less thinking, and more making moves!"
GO GET 'EM AND HAVE FUN!
Originally posted on Sinn's Blog
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The 5 Immutable Laws Of Pick Up
Hooray hyperbolic titles!!!
Anyway here's a bit of what i teach on bootcamps. These are things that I think come as close as possible to being 100% true when picking girls up.
1. Ignore anything which cannot help you get the girl. This is the heart of being non-reactive, dealing with social pressure, whatever you wanna call it. You have to learn to ignore things, be they congruence tests or guys entering your sets. If it doesn't help you, it's useless and not worth giving attention to.
2. Always be cooler than the girl. Even if it's just .001% you always have to act as if you think she's not as cool as you. This can take the form of teasing, commanding, or simply not explaining yourself. Girls are just not evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to guys of equal or lesser status. It sucks but it's the way the world works.
3. ABC. Or always be closing as my buddy Entropy would say. As a man you must take all responsibility for escalation. From physically escalating to maintaining plausible deniability with her friends. Everything is up to you. Men are sexually aggressive, women are sexually receptive.
4. Saying something is better than saying nothing. When you see a girl you want to approach it is WAY easier to go in and mess it up than to sit around debating the different ways you could do it. Give yourself permission to fail. Because even trying puts you ahead of 99% of guys.
5. Thinking in field is the enemy. I always say " less thinking, more making moves." Which besides being a line I stole from a Dave Chapelle stand up special, applies to pick up perfectly. Thinking is the worst thing you can be doing when you're out. Actually maybe it's the second worst after talking about game. Instead let go of the outcome, recognize that you are on the plateau as George Leonard calls it in Mastery and put in the work. Do approaches, get blown out, learn. That's the only point of going out to game. Not to oggle and complain about how all the sets are too hard.
So those are my five rules of pick up. If you stick to those you should be off to a good start in your learning process.
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