If I've opened a set I try and involve everyone. If a girl is not talking especially if I don't have a wing I'll try to pull her into the conversation.

You've got to do this in a very playful way, but I'll poke her with my finger and say.

"What are you made out of?... Wood or plastic?" I'll wait till she responds.
Then say, "You're so quiet. You remind me of a manaquin" It's a neg so you have to do it playfully or it won't work.

What are some other ways ya'll pull the "quiet one" into a conversation. I find if you don't you end up getting cock blocked by her or the one who is talking pulls all her friends out of the set with her becuase she thinks her friends are bored.

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yeah, good post man. Great line as well, with the right delivery of course. I'm stealing it

How about:

"you know, if we were playing the Silence game, you'd be our new champion"

All of these lines are examples of negs. They are good lines, but they should not be used unless it is directed towards your target.

These aren't the types of lines you should use to get the rest of the set involved. In order to get the quiet obstacles involved, ask them as specific question. If your target is the quiet one, then go ahead and use these lines.

You have the right idea. good work. Let me know if you need any clarification

It can't hurt to DHV with all involved, can it? Say if you happen to create attraction w/ her friend as well, wouldn't that make it easier for her friends to ler you isolate her? You're always nicer to the ppl you like, correct?

By involving her friends in the conversation in a fun flurty way, you are showing that you can be a fun person to hang out with. When I go into a set I never have a target (broken "rule" I know). Instead I flurt with all the girls, and if the one that flurts back is cute, then I make her my target. I have been in situations where I'm gaming one girl but her friend turns out to be way more fun, so I decide to switch. If you work the whole set instead of just the target you have that option. It also makes it much easier to isolate her from the group if her friends think your awesome. Bottom line, puasteven's advice is great.