Hi guys, firsty much love to the guys on the forum, you have really helped me with my game. I have now reached a crossed roads, i think i met the one, but I am worried I am going to blow it in a big way if I dont get hold of myself. I usually dont get any anxiety or loose confidence when i like a girl, I am usually composed and in control, but this HB has somehome made me regress into my former self. Here the deal:

Met this girl a week ago in a bar, I e-mailed closed in 3 minutes and number closed the next day. She told me she had just split with her 2 year long ex BF 2 days prior to me meeting her. I have spoken to her almost everyday since and we often text 2-3 times a day usually just fluff. I am begining to really the girl we get on, but I am now confussed how to play it and I am now worried about getting into the friends zone. All the converatsions we have had have been all about getting to know eachother, I think she likes as she always texts me. I have not put any of the game into play as I am worried i may come across as a dick, therefore I have been acting like a mate and someone she can talk to. I have kept the flirting to a low key. We have not met for a date yet but she is open to hanging out with me soon, I need to suggest a date.

Guys how do I play this, i really like this girl and I dont want to screw up by appearing to keen and acting like a pussy, but at the same time i dont want to end up in the 'friend zone'. This is so out of my comfort zone, dont usually like girls this quick. What should I do?

Thanks in advance,

Ironside32

cowboy the fuck up bro, you're putting too much emphasis on the outcome, stop thinking so much, be bold, put her down in a fun way, stop thinking about being a dick, you have to not care man, get out of your own fuckin head, she wants a man who can make decisions and advance, not one thats too reserved to escalate. get your act together, flip the attraction switch before she LJBF's your ass

d mid, you are totally right, what am i doing? I should know this!! What am I playing at, i am over thinking this and need to get my inner game back in play. Point and shoot me man, how do I flip on the attraction switch with this one. Get me started and i'll be fine.

When I have my game and dont give a shit HB's follow me and as soon as i start giving a shit then I lose focus.

I needed that. thanks man!

You're ok ironside, just stay cocky funny. send her a text that says

"WANTED...chick...gorgeous...nice car...nice ass...kind and caring...great in bed....I know none of this applies to you but if you know anyone like this give them my number"

give her a hard time, set up a day 2, get her on the phone and ask her when she's gonna take YOU out. remember you're the prize, not her. if you believe that then she will believe that. Maybe the best advice to ever give anyone is to have a strong frame. Use your fuckin head, stay alpha and go get her!