I was on my way home yesterday and bumped into this group of 3 HB 7's/8's who approached me, one of them linked arms with me and the others were asking questions on what clubs open until later than 4am (it was roughly 2am at the time i saw them). They gave me the name of this club which opens until 5am and asked me whether it was too late to get into it? I told them I didn’t know what time it opened until but I said I knew one of the doormen which work at this club (in which I did really know). They then told me to come to the club with them and I thought "why not, it might be fun".

So we got into a taxi in which me and one of the girls paid for (felt kinda AFC by doing this). Now this is the point I may need some serious pointers on, because whilst we was in the cab I felt I was "too quiet" around the girls, one of the girls even said "are you alright, your being very quiet", I literally froze up in the car (maybe due to tiredness or something) and wasn’t saying much. When I did talk, I wasn’t speaking loud enough to really make an impact on the girls or get them to take notice (even the taxi driver was muscling in on the girls more than me it seemed).

When we finally got to the club, the door person I knew wasnt working their. It may of been handy if he was there as they stopped letting people into the club. We then got turned away, as they wernt licensed to let any more people in at that time of the night. The girls did most of the talking to the doormen (again I was still frozen and mousy like, and literally stood behind them like they were the men or something).

This was obviously a major disappointment as we paid money in the taxi to get to a club that didnt even let us in. The HB's must of thought (what a wimp, i thought you could of hooked us up?).

We then tried another club which we had to catch a taxi too again, only for the exact same thing to happen. The girls then said they were gonna go home as there is no where else to go. I said they could come back to mine for a night cap but they declined ("using the excuse of having work the next day etc").

So we all got in a taxi yet again (to take them home and then drop me home after), where one of the HB's (who was very loud and outgoing earlier in the night) had just went quiet and froze up, I could see the dissapointment in their faces (felt like such a let down). When they got dropped off they didnt give no kisses or hugs good bye or anything, they just said bye and got out the cab. I gave one of them my business card at the last minute and havent heard anything from them since.

Just to note: I only paid for part of the taxi fare to the club and and on my way back home (It did occur to me that maybe they were just tryna hustle to see what they could get out of me).

I was so annoyed at the fact I had 3 HB's with me and didnt do much about it. I wreckon I had a chance of getting in there with at least one of them (a 4some would of been tha s***), as they were all doing loads of KINO and potential IOI's (one of them was really going for it lol).

Can anyone provide any pointers or suggestions on what I should of done in this situation, and provide some tips for situations like this in future?

Dude, in my opinion you had ALOT of oppurtunity that you missed out on. First you need to sort your game out. my suggestion, watch the pick up artist show , and a video of neil strauss's annihaliation method which i downloaded, jus so you no what to do.

Think!! they apprached you!! they invited you to a club!! so they were interested!!

every one can go silent, thats why yo need to create some DHV stories to keep them interested, you need to be talking the most.

they seem pretty hyper and fun, you should of done some kino, like when you got out the taxi to the first club, say ' oi! you linked arms with me before youll have to do it agen or they wont let us in' etc#

didnt get in the first club, you should have suggested the second. still didnt get in the second club.thats fine.you dont ask them 2 come to yours for a sleep, NEVER say it like that, you have to invite them back for a good reason. i would have sed ' god i cant get in any clubs with you lot theres summit wrong with you, anyway, im bored and i need to have a good tym tonyt. im guna go to mine, invite a few friends round and get some drinking games going, you guys should come. take them back, say ya mates cant cum, an jus have fun.

better than sayin in a quite voice, ' do you want to sleep round mine' they would say no because there is no reason to sleep round yours as they have there own beds, but if you can show u will have a wild time at ur place they will more likely say yes as there have no where to party ( as they cannnot get into clubs)