| Women and men are different but in the "touch department", we all enjoy it when done with confidence and in the right context.
The key is make sure that you realize and she realizes that this is a pleasurable thing for HER and to do this, kino should also be approached with a bit of push and pull. This would be just an example:
Put your palm up confidently and as if you've just noticed, "Oh, let me see your nails." She'll offer her hand. A few seconds is all you need. Hey, grab her hand with intent. Be warm. make a stroke across her fingers with your thumb. Make a remark. Neg, compliment, whatever . . the point here is the kino and the remarks would change depending on the situation and what her nails look like, matches her outfit, when was her last manicure, etc . . .whatever.
Then you casually but gently toss her hand out. (She LOVED being touched. . .now you deny your services) And you change the topic right away into a different routine. If she goes back to the nails topic, this is an IOI worth big points. She'll say, "Yeah . . . blah, blah, nails, blah blah." You put your hand out and here she comes. This time, you reward her for a while longer. You can add a touch to the elbow. You can stare into her eyes a bit. "Yeah . . .or no, your nails, blah, blah, blah, . . ."
Oh yes. . . and you change the subject once again. Take your hand away, "Look over there, that guy's shaking that martini like a 100 times. That's cool!" (You motion the shake) bring your hand back somewhere else. Look back at her. . . By this time, you don't have to say a thing. You can talk about what ever the hell you want. Just open your hand and she'll grab it.
I'm new to this board and I've been reading some posts. First off, I've already learned a bunch from you veterans. Cool stuff . . . Secondly, I think a lot of you guys are looking for magic routines, one liners, and singular methods that you can simply copy. The routine above works. I didn't want to be too specific because I want to highlight that it's not singular "method" and a set of lines but that there are fundamental reasons for positive outcomes.
Get creative. There isn't a body part that can't be explored and touched as long as you are creative and allow the escalation some time. Whispers are great. Don't ever REACH for them. You want to whisper in her ear so you motion to her with your hands and say, "Come here, I want to tell you something. "(Like you have some great big secret) Do you know what you tell them? "Blah, blah, blah. . ." Do you want her to start breathing in your ear and get face to face with you? Instead of a "Blah, blah, blah," . . .you whisper in her ear, "Blah, blah, blah??" (Any dumb question) then you turn your ear and point to it as if you expect a "secret" answer. Hey, if she wants to be rewarded, she's going to have to give as much as she takes.
Think about it . . . knees, neck, thighs. . . knees, to knees, it's endless. . .
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cocky funny's cousin is the harmless monkey comedian. If you're getting the "cool guy" attraction, then I think there's something wrong. I've always felt that cocky funny is highly sexual and doesn't leave any questions about your intentions. . . or perhaps you're too over the top like Dice Clay? How about some examples of your routine?
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