background:
my coworker is from this area, i just moved back after 5yrs at school so i'm kind of like a fish out of water in regards to the social scene. i have very little approach anxiety so going out by myself or with him or another wing is not a problem and i've done that. however, he has quite a few girls he knows from this area that he either went to school with or is a "friend of a friend". not too long ago we went to Hooters before our softball game and this girl he was talking to was our waitress. the next table over had an HB9 workin it and i didn't think much of it. well 2 nights later on thursday we all meet up to go out to a bar/club at my buddy's place and the waitress is there. as soon as i walk in, she looks at me with a big smile and says "hey, you were at Hooters on tuesday!!". I said yah, and neg'd her about not saying anything then. i DHV with my wings and then we head off. we get to the club and we got a VIP table/bottle service and her & i talked and then danced a little. tried to number close but her other friend who likes me was there and she didn't want to do that in front of her so she emails me the next day with her number etc.
we started texting/talking during the day and we got on the topic of going out for my birthday. she tells me i "might get a b-day kiss", i roll my eyes and play it off. well we go out and sure enough i kiss close. one of her friends got wayyy too drunk and had to go home via ambulance so i offer to drive her home. there's a LOT of kino and kissing goin on but the house we get to where she parked is that girl's house that's her friend that also likes me.

fast forward to 2 days ago. every night i get texts about her wanting to be in bed cuddling/kissing/etc....saying she wants goodnight kisses

well she has class starting at like 7:30am so every morning at 6:30am i get "good morning babe" texts

well starting yesterday the texts got to be one word/non-responsive. but then she'll pick back up around midnight when she gets off work with more flirty shit.

what's my line on progressing this. she has class til 3:45pm every day (cosmetology school) and works from 4-12am on some nights so her schedule isn't always open.

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She sounds like she's just really busy, but it sounds like she's given you tons of IOI's. Continue talking to her and inform her that she is fun to be around and to contact you when she is free. That way it doesn't make you look so pushy to hang out with her and the ball is in her court. If she really does like you she will find time to hang out with you.

I'm actually kind of in the same boat with the fact that a girl I'm gaming works two jobs and doesn't get off till 11 every night. We still text every night and when she has days off we always plan something.

Yeah, that sudden coldness confuses the shit out of me sometimes too. I have no idea where it comes from, and I have no solution for it!

Any other feedback that you guys have will be appreciated!

What's the elapsed times between texts. For example if you text her, how long before she responds? And vice versa, if you text her how long before a response?

How often are you initiating texts on any given day?

Also what's the word count on the texts. For example if you text here 20 words does she come back with one word? I ask these, because in text game it's real easy to tell who is chasing who based on how responsive each party is and the time and effort they put in their texts.

I don't know if this is relevant to your situation but if you are immediately responding to her texts, it could give the impression that you are dying to hear from her. This could end up killing attraction in the long run. Girls generally want to sleep with guys that have equal or higher value than them, and the impression of a guy who responds to texts too quickly or puts in more effort to the text dialogue (ie too many words) will demonstrate lower value thus killing attraction.

This may or not be your case, but it may provide clues to the interaction.

No matter how flirty the texts are you still being cocky and funny with your texts? Are your texts revealing that you think of yourself as the prize and she'll be lucky if you decided to sleep with her?

If a girl feels the attraction, she will find a way to text you during the day. So the time constraints seem irrelevant. If I were you, I'd withdraw and wait for her to initiate the texts. Every time she did text me, I'd wait a few minutes to respond, keep my response sbrief, but make sure to playfully bust on her as much as possible.

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Dude!! She WANTS you. You gotta make your move.

yeah no doubt!

being a hired gun, her game is a little better than most younger girls i meet/game but she is still not THAT good....

i had to move for 3 months for work/school opportunities and told her the day before (last wednesday) she was upset and asked if i even had plans to tell her i was gonna move. truth of the matter is i made the decision tuesday and had to go immediately. i got to my destination, got moved in, and went out to eat with my brother and 4 of my best friends when i get a text from her that went like this

Her: so are you lonely now?
Me: no, this place isn't new to me....i've lived here for 5yrs
Her: well i'm in bed and i want to cuddle with you right now
Her: and sex would be great too, it's been a while

my roommate is my best wing, older than me, with plenty of experience and the same style as me.

i showed him this at the dinner table and he said to just turn the heat up right now, make it clear what i want, and be very forward in the texts/calls sexually....it has worked

she know's i'll be down about 1 time a month til january which includes holidays which are 1week+...

now she's planning on coming up here to stay with me.....

any text game ya'll work in situations like this or does it seem to be progressing well from ya'lls view?

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