Guys,

I approached this brazilian HB9 outside the station.

ME: Excuse me
HB9: Hi
ME: I saw you and you are absolutely stunning
HB9: LOL thankyou
ME: What are you from ?
HB9: I am from Brazil I got here a few days ago i work as a model

We do some small talk about Brazil and we talk about London and how she loves the city.

ME: Cool well lets grab a coffee
HB9: I am in a rush have to go to see a friend
ME:No worries lets hangout sometime
HB9: I am seeing this russian guy right now
ME: Well listen you seem like a cool person lets hangout anyway
HB9: Sure give me your number and i will phone you

I got her number the next day I SMS'd her

"Hey Julia it was great meeting you yesterday i am going to a gig next week why dont you come and join me"

She replied back within 5 mins

"Heyyy it was lovely meeting you too I am not sure what i am doing next week will let you know whats happening that day"

I respond back a day later...

"Cool when you come along i want you to wear the same top you were wearing when we first met it brings out the sexiness in you"

Now the thing is she hasnt replied back. Have i gone too far with my SMS ?. Its been 2 days now.

Kev

whats happening man, from your post it seems you have not built comfort, attraction wasnt there, you were kinda direct and for a hb 9 you have to neg.

your txt message showed way to much interest after you said she was cool and you should just hang out. not sure if that helps

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You are being totally needy. Once you offered coffee and she declined, you shouldn't have suggested "hanging out." It makes it appear you are desperate and you implied wayyyyy too much intentions as well.

Let's break this down as well

Dear god you didn't. You know how many other guys tell her she's beautiful and stunning? So what makes you different from those other chumps?
You know how many other chumps ask her this same question? You don't start conversations with the same boring shit that everybody else does. The object is to be different. So far, you are just like guy number 1,003,678.

Small talk. That sounds AFCish and pretty much has been your standard during this whole ordeal.
You built absolutely no attraction and you want her to ditch your friend to grab a coffee. had you been interesting to her, she would have taken you up on the offer.
Sometime? That's lame and you were trying to hard at this point. You know what she saw? She saw a desperate guy trying his best to get her to go out with him and it DLVs the hell out of you. So much that she flat out stated she's not interested because she's seeing somebody else.

She asked for you number so she wouldn't have to give you hers. She had no intentions of calling you. For good reasons to. You didn't deserve her with the game you ran.
How did you get her number again? She texted you?
BORING!! No way she wants to go with you. I would suggest reading some of this material my friend.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/foru ... .php?f=124



See. She's pretty much saying. Yeah, I'll keep you as option #524 and if the other 523 things fall through, then I might go out with you, but don't hold your breath.
Jesus fucking christ man. Have you read ANY pua material whatsoever? What in the fuck makes you think this is going to work. News flash: you are not brad pitt. That sounded so AFCish.....*sigh*
Don't expect her to reply back.


Hate to say it, but it's like you haven't read the material at all and have no clue on what to do. Seems you read a few posts up here and try to center your game around that. Read magic bullets and work on the stages.

You should thank Saqchek for taking the time to break that shit down as good as he did. Damn.

The good thing is that you can approach these hbs. Just learn to be a bit more cocky, and run on your own time constraint. Fluff is good at a bar when you have a while to build comfort. On the street you gotta be quick. Have a purpose in your approach. You were persistent, which is good, but it was in a needy way. You have to take more control of the situation. If you are going to try and run c_n's routines, you have to have be able to control the conversation more. His game is tight because of his frame.

Work on being more alpha, be breezy, and control the conversation more.

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yea bro .. too needy..first of all dont ask , tell! ... then when you open her never open with "excuse me".. what are you excusing yourself from? Your the alpha male.. then you did not built attraction for her and that why she threw the "im dating this guy now" thing ... if this was in a club youd be considered blown out of set (locked).. then you were too needy by sms'ing her right after... and you didnt build comfot either... if you do everything right usually ..Shes not supposed to say i have to go meet my friend...

bro follow the m3 model my myster

Attraction - Comfort - Seduction
A1 C1 S1
A2 C2 S2
A3 C3 S3

A1 = open
A2 = neg/and DHV
A3 = Qualification (why is she so important to you..this is where she works for your attention and affection)

C1 , C2 , C3 = Comfort..tell stories about your emotions .. personal sotries..family stories....and also the basic how are you , where you from

S1- Kissing/kino
S2-Kino
S3- sex

Mad props man. Excellent break down.

Dude I just read what you wrote and you certainly blew it...

Do not and I mean DO NOT!! say that kind of things to a girl that you just met.. specially if she´s a #1 a hottie and #2 and stranger.
You blew off your cover to soon by saying you wanted her to wear that exact top or whatever...

Next time my friend.. build more comfort.

´JM

Ok...

Now there´s one story that I´m currently in and have no idea of what to do or how to contact this girl..

Here it is

So here´s the story...

Last Friday I went to a wedding, and was having the time of my life. Suddenly I bumped into this girl that I haven´t seen for aprox. 2 years.. We started to talk, take a couple of drinks and hit the dance floor and then went back for more drinks and kept talking and so on...

I felt so much attaction to this girl... everytime we danced it was like as if I was dancing with one of my ex´s you get the picture huh... that close face to face, hands touching.. etc you get the picture... and I haven´t seen this girl in 2 YEARS!!!!

Well the deal was that we were having a blast.. at one moment during the night I went to the restroom and when I came back she was talking to his best friend (boy) and she kept looking at me... I kept my distance to show no desperation .... About 15 mins past and she went home.... We did say good bye but nothing special like the last hour we spent together.. she said his best friend was taking her home.. probable i didnt build enough comfort during that hour for her to leave with me...

The deal with this girl is that she´s leaving to england next sunday and she´ll be back in september..

What I want to do is to try to go out with here this week, before she leaves... She didn´t have a cellphone at the time (at the wedding) cause she´s been abroad for two yrs now, so she´s not carrying any local phone numbers..
I can probably figure out the number she´s using though..

So my question to you guys its simple... I want to go out with this girl, get to build more comfort and take it from there.. The problem is that I have no clue what to do in this moment.

I only have her email and facebook...

regards to you my brothers...

Woah. There are positives here.

Okay, so your game is not squeaky tight - you can improve this.
How many people replying would have not done this and then posted some AA thread a couple of hours later?

It's a good start, you will learn fast with this mindset.

dammit tasawabao stop posting your dam message everywhere. Ive seen it in at least 3 separate threads. If you are that concerned make up your own but do not put it into other threads where it obviously does not fit. Good things come to those who wait...

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that breakdown was crucial. thanks for that