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| Slip n Slide | PostPosted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 12:26 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Wed Jun 29, 2011 4:55 am Posts: 1232 | | So if I don't get a reply in time I'd still like an answer on what to do in this situation.
An HB9 that I have been friendly with since I was a complete AFC (as opposed to a slightly improved one) called me today asking me to come and hang out with her friends at a pool. I said yes and asked for the address before realizing I already had dinner plans. I texted her saying that I was going to eat then call her afterward. I have done both, and she didn't answer the phone.
So what now? I can wait and see if she calls me, I can text her, or I can call again. I don't want to seem needy, but I would really like to meet her friends.
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| rozedavoice | PostPosted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 4:54 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Dec 05, 2010 8:51 pm Posts: 90 AOL: trosevoice Location: Salem Oregon | | you fuck up when you told her you had dinner plans.
see most woman well think the worst case situation which is your on a date with some other girl. next time that happens get the address and keep procrastinating that your on the way.
then when she ask what take you make a joke about it, and look at her friend and tell your excuse.
your best bet now is to wait and see what ac cure, you should of text i made these mistakes before. text her and wait out but i think its stupid you even called
should of text and say your on the way _________________ A player is just a man that won't settle for less
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| Katon | PostPosted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 10:05 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jul 05, 2011 10:52 pm Posts: 29 | | Your over thinking bro, take a deep breath. Now, it's obvious isn't it?
Texting her or calling her more than once = DLV
NOT CARING = DHV
Personally, i'd forget about her for a couple days. Go do some sarging or whtever you PUA's do to pass time. JUST WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT SHOW THIS GIRL ANY IOI's AFTER PULLING SHIT LIKE THAT. Until she engages you. Then game on.
hope that helped
- Katon
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| Slip n Slide | PostPosted: Wed Jul 27, 2011 5:20 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Wed Jun 29, 2011 4:55 am Posts: 1232 | | Hahaha I think it's really interesting that I got that advice seeing as I definitely didn't take it. I had dinner plans with my family, to clarify that point. I ended up calling again about an hour later, a mutual female friend of ours answered and said I should come to the original HB's house. I did so and things went very well (it was 95% people I already knew).
There was a party down the street so we all walked down, I ended up # closing 4 girls (should have had a k-close but I didn't isolate when I could have).
As it turns out, my friend is very social and very sweet, and I don't think she could care less about higher vs lower value. Katon, you said I was over thinking and I agree, but I'm learning it's often better not to over think and fill the role of the guy who wants to go out and have fun, rather than be the one working to maintain his status with each girl.
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