I have noticed that guys here don't talk about this, and I think that it is necessary. It is the real close, everything else we do, every other close is just a step that leads to sex, and if you are good at that, she will never cheat on you...
To tell you the truth, I don't know how to do it. I was with one girl, and never quite got the hang of it.
This will be topic where you can say which methods are you using to last longer, and to make her addicted to you.
So, share yor sex tips 'n tricks right here. Other inexpirienced and I will be greatly thankfully to you...

So, I'll start first, there are Kegel's exercise which can make you last longer by strengthening your pubic mucle (between anus and ball sack), I copied it from AskMan site. It goes like this:



Now, on to the daily Kegel exercises for men.

Note: These exercises are done hands-free. You do not “squeeze” anything with your hands as they are all done with your PC muscles.


Kegel session 1
Exercise A
Sets: 3
Quickly clench and release repeatedly for 10 seconds.

Take a 10-second break between sets.

Exercise B
Sets: 10
Clench and release repeatedly for 5 seconds.

Take a 5-second break between sets.

Exercise C
Sets: 3
Tighten and hold your PC muscle for 30 seconds.

Take a 30 second break between sets.

That’s it for today, but repeat these Kegel exercises for men daily for one week.


Kegel session 2
Exercise A
Sets: 10
Clench and hold your PC muscle for 5 seconds.

Release and repeat.

Exercise B
Sets: 3
Quickly clench and release your PC muscle 10 times.

Exercise C
Sets: 3
Clench and release your PC muscle alternatively in long and short bursts for counts of 10.

Exercise D
Sets: 1
Tighten your PC muscle and hold for as long as you can. Aim for 2 minutes.

You can do the session 2 Kegel exercises for men for a week; however, feel free to progress if you feel you are strong enough. Remember that these are strengthening exercises, so start off slowly and build up, just like you would with any other muscle.


Kegel session 3
Exercise A
Sets: 30 (work your way up to more than 100)
Clench and release your PC muscle over and over again.

Exercise B
Sets: 5
Tighten as much as you possibly can (ensure that you are only squeezing your PC muscle).

Hold for 20 seconds.

Take a 30-second break between sets.
kegel session 4
Exercise A
Sets: As many as you like.
Clench and release your PC muscle for 2 minutes every day.

Work your way up to doing 20 minutes 3 times a day -- you should eventually be able to perform 200 repetitions per session.

You dont really need all that bro....
You need to make her feel comfortable around you, and MAKE HER FEEL like SHE is the SEXIEST WOMAN ON THE PLANET. you need lots of foreplay (that begins long before the bedroom) You need to kiss her everywhere on her body. now every girl is diferent but any girl i've ever been with loved light bites on the butt cheek.then kisses on back of the knees, back of the neck, collar bone, ears, nipples and then finally the clit. you dont need pills or exercises, you just need to take your time on her body. You need to be rough, you need to be agressive, you need to be able to throw her around the bed and talk dirty.

hope this helps.

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I once never did kegels and i lasted too long.

For me and probably other guys, it doenst really make you LAST LONGER perse but strengthening you pc muscle lets you control WHEN you want to cum, so if you last too long or too short youll be able to control it much more effectively.

And that for me was the best, since the best time to cum is right when she cums.

I agree and a HUGE Yes to foreplay, but some women just cant orgasm you need some sort of massage to give them a sexual release enabling them to cum and then finding out the best angles to finger her and the best position to fuck her. Each girl likes a differet angle and different rhythm.

Make her feel beautiful, make her feel safe, make her feel that everything is going to be perfect when you engage in sex and i guarantee you she will beg you to have sex as much as possible.

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I agree with what you said as well except for

"but some women just cant orgasm"

all women can orgasm..and 99% can squirt.
like i said, start with kissing her all oever her body, work the inner thigh of one leg,
slightly roll your tongue across her clit down the thigh of her other leg
(when your kissing up one leg and rolling over the clit, if your doing it right she'll be begging you to either eat her pussy or fuck her. DONT!) go down the opposite thigh and then come up, then kiss and lick the lips, kiss above and around the clit, and then start with soft licks of the clit to firmer licks. start with one finger around the pussy, and rub the rim, then begin to finger her with one finger slowly. then add a second finger, and begin fingering a little firmer (all while still licker her clit) make sure you two fingers are hitting her gspot (its a spongy feel on the pussy where the belly button is or two to three inches inside) build up is key here...begin thrusting your two fingers hard on her g spot while sucking on her clit when she starts squirming go harder and harder and harder!! if she feels like she's about to pee, make her comfortbale and let her know its not pee, and that she's about to have an intense orgasm. 20-30 seconds after her pee sensation if done correctly she will squirt, and it will be the one of the sexiest things you've ever seen.

Rememebr this is all before you've even stuck your dick insider her and she's alredy came...now she's all yours

its late, and i didnt re read to make sure it all makes sense..so hopefully you understand what i'm saying..but i use this technique again and again.. and i watch girls squirt again and again..also dont be afraid to ask what the girl is into.

Good luck,
Danny Boy

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99 percent is a huge overestimation.

You need to discount women who "orgasm" aka act like they are having an orgasm and a lot "think" they are having an orgasm but the truth is they just came close to orgasm but didnt peak. Also women tend to exaggerate how good we are right after sex. Because the thing is 90 percent of women havent had a REAL orgasm.

With women, ejaculation is different from a real orgasm. They wont feel a peeing a sensation but more like a "holyshit what fuck did just happen and when are we gonna do that again" sensation as if someone shot a cannon ball up their vagina.

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Have confidence in yourself man.

First let me say yea I know what your talking about with the "they have never been with someone good enough so they think its an orgasm" because I've given a few girls there first orgasms and its an amazing the to watch, feel, be a part of etc. And hear them say things like "thats never happened before" "i thought an orgasm was just the sex and getting hot" "this was like my first real time" my favorite one was durring sex and she yelled out " ohh you have every right to be arrogant" lol


But there are sure fire ways to know, first and foremost, you can feel the cum on your dick when she cums, it almost feels like your the one who just came, but if you know what it feels like and your used to the feeling than you know that she's just came. And just to be clear, a squriting "orgasm" is a orgasm.

(Its the best when she's on top and your pounding away and she cums, and the she get off of you and BAM all this cum shoots onto your dick and stomache)

Also the "glow" i'm not talking about the red flushed look, I'm talking about the glow. Its not as accurate but when they have this flushed look with white blotches around there face, especially under there eyes.

As for the squirming, no it literally happense just like that, so you may not be doing it right. I had this girl right before she was about tosquirt and she's literallly squirming with her ass popping off the bed shifting left to right a good five or six inches. It's hilarious to watch.


I'm not saying girls don't fake orgasms, but I am saying its really easy to tell when its real or not.


Danny Boy

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and the peeing sensation is just as real as the squirming, I mean this is all first hand knowledge after asking the girl what the feelings were like.

over all good convo tho man, thanks for the replies

Danny Boy

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Lol i really dont want to get into a "hey im better than you at sex" argument, but basically we achieve our goal of making sex enjoyable for the girl; just different understanding of it and differing magnitudes ;P lol seriously i know A LOT about this, id just rather not spill the beans. Keep up the good work bro.

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You misinterpreted my intentions brother, no need to get sensitive.
I am sharing my knowledge and experiences, that's what the forum is all about.

Good luck,
Danny Boy

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Hey guys, just wanted to tell you to keep argumenting, I'm learning more about sex now, then in any porn I watched, ever. You have different views, so what we can do is try them both. If I haven't srcewed up with one girl I was this Saturday (my cock was just sleeping :-S), I will try one method and see if it works, I'll give my input on that situation then.
But seriously, do keep on.

I have question for you. What is the best sex position to make her cum? Is it from behind?

haha, no argument. just opinionated.
If you have any questions feel free to let me know.
I love sharing this information with others.
Thers no secret position to make a girl cum but yes,
from behind works best because its the most direct penetration to the g spot.
either doggie her legs closed, yours spread out (rather than hers spread out yours inside her legs) or reverse cowgirl modified to where shes not riding but shes sitting on top and your just pounding away-THAT is a powerful direct gspot stim position.
If you want to get really deep, throw her legs over your shoulders and pound away. You will see a look in her face of fear,pleasure, and complete ecstacy.

There is a position that i sort of invented, and I say this because I have never seen it mentioned in a book, website, porno, discussion, conversation etc etc.
That is pure magic. Unfortunately, I
1) would have no way of describing it (sorta)
2) am not even sure if i would be willing to give this one away, because it is truly unbelievable. i'm thinking about it now and haha, wooh!!!

If your not used to those last two I mentioned you will cum quicker than normal, but practice makes perfect
But
If your strong enough where you can flip her around, use those as your last two positions and you will not dissapoint. And don't for get the walls, nothing will make her feel like you have the biggest dick on this earth more than hitting up against the walls. I could go on and on, but let me know what else your looking for, and i'll be more than happy to share.

Hope this helps

Danny Boy

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not to completely diss everyone in the thread.... but if you read around and shit, most girls DONT have an orgasm from being pounded by a dick, and the ones that do are actually getting clit stimulation (some girls have the clitoris bunched closer to the front wall). I am not dissing... but it seems a little unbelievable to me that you guys pound the girls in your positions and its the most amazing thing for them. Not even in porn where the guy's are fucking HUGE and pound like hell do girls orgasm just from intercouse.

The G-spot and oral is spot on though, except it is important to note. Some girls do not absolutely LOVE g-spot stimulation. Some prefer clit stimulation much more over the gspot.

90 percent of women dont have a real orgasm. Clit stimulation is nothing compared to a full body orgasm. You cant just make a girl orgasm. There are certain "preparation techniques" you need to perform on the girl to release her potential for a real orgasm. Most sexually active women have had some partial sexual release and they get pelvis-wide orgasm involving the clit and the underlying g-spot area which is also the clit (clit is like the tip of an iceberg), the real orgasm involves the entire body.

Most of the time it also releases their ability to cum during sex, but it would take some trial and error getting the angle and rhythm she likes the most.

Most normal women never become capable of having an orgasm because a lot of them fake it like i have been stating in order to boost their partners ego, and sex is
Often times emotionally satisfying for them, so they dont look into it, and miss out on A LOT.

Imagine how good you feel when you bust a good nut. Multiply that by 10 and you get the magnitude of a real female orgasm, not to mention you can stack it and they get multiple orgasmic contractions while we got about 3 to 4 contractions in one orgasm they can go up to 10 or way higher. Its one of the good things
About being a woman.

Its okay that you dont believe it. I does seem crazy if you havent experienced it first hand.

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no sir, you are completely right about what you just wrote... im just saying more times than not, your dick isn't going to do the job, unless you have a perfect dick for the girl ( you might, idk) the angle wont matter, the girl having the insane orgasm is going to come from using your hands primarily

Lol your really good at playing devils advocate. Think you will figure it out. You seem like a smart guy anyways ;D

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