Ok so I had some pretty good convos with these 2 girls. girl number 1 in a clothing shop, I actually broke the 3-second rule with her. I froze when I saw her at first, I went upstairs kicking myself thinkign i should have talked to her, then spotted her on the escalator down. she said she was a model. I had a smooth opener, neg, fluff, neg, analysed handshakes, blah blah, then asked "how should we continute this convo". She said "i have a boyfriend but are u on Facebook?" I said yea we can all go out blah blah. She said "just make sure u dont say u met me in a store because he wouldnt like that if he read it" i said sure. She was laughing and found a tin of condoms for sale that siad protect HIV while i was taking down her name, I said "o wow if ur picking up that I might just stop taking ur name down and leave" She laughed.

Girl number 2 was actually the employee of a store, I opened by asking what shoes I should get my sister for her bday, I negged blah blah, analysed handshake, asked name, what she does, fluff, etc. Asked how we should continute the convo, she smiled and said "i can give u my email and facebook". SO shew wrote both down a receipt from the till. I walked out with a skip in my step.

So basically guys, are these positive signs, or are they just fuck off signs?

at first sight, indeed positive signs

But still work needs to be done

Ask her out/escalate/kino/ the usual stuff.

Cool is there a particular time frame i should wait?

I've found that texting pretty quickly is key with just something like "fun meeting you at xx, here's my [number, facebook, etc.]." Depends on the girl, but maybe throw in something like "NO DRUNK TEXTING ME YET"

See how that works, and if you're having trouble figuring out where to go from there hit up the boards.

Thx for the input. So its been a day, r u saying I should send each of them a fb message saying fun meeting u here's my number. Original plan was to drop em a line tmr

I'd really hate to burst your bubble dude, but facebook and e-mail is usually a blowoff. If a girl likes you she'll give you her number. The only time when a girl who likes you will give you a facebook or e-mail instead of a number is when she's from another country or something like that and she maybe doesn't have a phone. Other than that its a blowoff....

BUT keep this going with these girls and see where it goes, you never know what might happen

Update, I said the "hey here my fb, no drunken texts" thing on Wendesday, no reply from either girls. In retrospect, I know the game says "never ask for a girls number", because i said "what steps should we take to continue this convo?". In the past ive always asked for a number... what are u guys thoughts from experience?

you're letting them lead. stop doing that. just lead the convo rather than ask them how to.

i like to do the 'buddy' test. if i text something to my buddies, would they think i'm being an ass? would i be alright publishing it to the world? writing something like "how should we take this conversation" would be the lamest text if i got it from a friend. i'd never talk to him again, or be like "wtf, are you alright?"

girls aren't some foreign creature. they're gonna think the same.

sorry i was little bit unclear in my last post. I was referring to when I met them in person, and rather asking for their number flat out, I said "What steps should we take to continue this conversation?"

I then facebooked them saying here my FB.

My question is, does it matter the question your using to get their number in person? in the past I've just asked for their number.