hi i'm relatively new to this pua stuff but always been outgoing and was wondering if anyone could help me out with a query.

so meet this HB 8.5/9 in really strange circumstances couple of months ago (long story), find out she is seeing someone thinks i'm hot soon after meeting her etc., lives two mins away. standard game/texting for a while building strong rapport and flirting.

problem was this was bang in exam season and she decided to not go out and so on so couldn't properly gauge her.

soon after exams finish, she asks me out to dinner. she gives a load of iois throughout, she had a good time but didnt k-close as it seemed too forward, not really my style etc.

she's always played down that she's seeing a boy like say if i tease her and say "toyboy" or "boyfriend" she'll get defensive etc and she's implied that he likes her more than she likes him.

i have a reputation where i live as being really hard to get/leading girls on and making girls work for it and in the past some girls who've liked me have sort of done things like seen other boys but later told me this was to make me jealous and force me to make a move.

could anyone help me make sense of this? does she like me or not?
is she just scared that if she breaks up with him for me and i blow her off she'll be left with nothing?

i dont want to give an ultimatum or ask straight because I'm still unsure over whether I like her as more than just good friend.

usually i'm fine but this girl is so closed emotionally at times, probably because of previous experiences its ridiculous.

cheers.

edit:

I'm 18 btw

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AJ

Some girls just jump from relationship to relationship. I would just take it, and see where it leads. Don't be afraid to close her, though. It may be exactly what she's looking for.