I was out with a couple of friends, just having a good time and talking to different people
Planned to meet a girl i've had a good tone with through texts, and got instantly connection
Just a few minutes after i met her i kissed her and no resistance, she wanted it so bad i could tell in her eyes ! So we made out quite a bit and then to not seem clingy and desperate i left with my friends to another bar and told her that i would be back later.

After i had been gone for about 20 minutes she texted me that i had to come back cause she wanted to show me her mobile background(knew what was behind)
Got there and made out with her some more. Meet a few of her friends and when we were making out a guy that was sitting there, gave me a death stare ! Scared the hell out of me first and then he grabbed the back of my head and looked me deep in the eyes and told me to get the hell out of here. I was a bit shocked because i've never seen or talked to him before, but he apparently knew "my girl".

So i left the bar to get some air and just talked to some friends and just relaxing. After that i left home... empty-handed even though that there was a high possibility that i could have taken her home... i was just in a bad state after that A-hole threatened me..

What could i have done better? And in the future, how to improve so the girls will go home with me and not staying with these douchebags?

wow, thats tough dude. Some girls like guys to fight over them becuase it makes them feel special. Only thing i could think of for that girl to tell you to come by him.

I never suggest getting in a fight. you never know who is in a gang, has a gun/knief, whos a MMA fighter looking for practice, etc.

basically, NEXT

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I got into a fight just before i left for holiday... an a-hole headbutted me so a new fight is the last i wanna be involved in! Understood that he was drunk and angry so i just left shit i ain't gonna get in a fight over a girl like that...

She texted me when she came home:

HER: i don't think i like that guy
ME: hehe... no u have to chose yourself. (trying to be a little mad at her stuff)
HER: He's a bit of an idiot(a lot) good that he's not going to be here much longer. but goodnight cutie

i got a little more happy after that but i don't know really... know that i should say fk that shit and move on but it's not that easy! so just gonna talk to her some more and see what happens but if she behaves like that when she's drink, then i have no problem leaving her!

Why not take her to the bar for a drink, then go somewhere else in the club?

When you were outside with ya buddys, throw her a text and tell her that your going to another bar/club whatever and that she should come. If she says no, you can give up and go home. But if she says yes.... You also look alpha and leader if your making the call, but also exclusively asking her.

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Hmmm didn't think of that, but that is some very good points! i will def think of that next time something similar happens, thank you!

It's always a good idea to just leave and not get involved into any fight. But you should have asked the girl to come with you.

There are billions of girls, but you only have one body. Not worth fighting, i rather have sex.

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