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| Dorian_Gray | PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 1:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Nov 28, 2009 5:37 pm Posts: 64 | | This has been field tested plenty of times and works a treat.
I beleive most women give LMR because they have a doubts about what your commitment will be after the sex. It's usually not the sex itself that worries them, it's whether you are just using them for it and have no intentions of continuing the interaction further once you get it. There is LMR where they don't want you to think they're easy, but that's usually token resistance, and all it requires is acknowledgement of the LMR and you're good.
I don't blame them, this is what some guys are like and I have been guilty of it myself one or twelve times. So when they feel that element of doubt that they've probably felt before, it's natural for them to give LMR to protect themselves.
Personally I don't think freeze outs or ploughing through deal with the issue directly. One plays on her need to seek to repair her sense of loss and she may do so by raising her LMR threshold. The other plays on the fact that as long as you keep your position on the escelation ladder she might lose her inhibitions if you persist long enough.
So what I've learnt to do when experiencing LMR:
- Continue kissing them a little more so it doesn't look like a direct reaction.
- Then STOP. Don't freeze them out, but you do want them pretty much to change their state.
- Lie next to them and then start talking about anything and lead it to making plans for either tomorrow/next week. Like "Oh we can go to that place for a meal on wednesday" or "Let go to that place for breakfast tomorrow". It's important to make it seem nautral here during general conversation rather than a forced thing.
- Elaborate a bit on the date, so it's more set in stone.
- Then get back to the action!
This gives them massive comfort that there is a future after sex with you, and that you don't just want to use them. It's worked so well for me that I've literally said it then their underwear has just fallen off afterwards.
To be honest I've actually started building this into my game earlier, before I attempt any seduction I ensure we have some future plans together. I havn't done this enough to tell if it's actually reducing the chance of LMR (I suspect it does) but since I've been doing this I seem to be encountering it a lot less.
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| TripleHelix | PostPosted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 1:23 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:04 am Posts: 8 Yahoo Messenger: elastic.c@gmail.com Location: France | | Killer technique, used it a few nights ago - seemed to work much better than the freeze outs, and it sets up a day 2/3 in one go.
Props.
Cheers, Triple
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| Boosted Jay | PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 4:29 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:50 pm Posts: 13 Location: Ct | | Totally works. field tested. Just say anything and keep up the kino. Talk about whatever you did before that day. Reuse a joke and turn it into an inside joke.
Don't break the mood though or you will have to start all over again, and by that point you wont want to.
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| Dorian_Gray | PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:06 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Nov 28, 2009 5:37 pm Posts: 64 | | I'm using this technique before every lay now, and I'm not experiencing half as much LMR as I used to. It is definitly more solid game to work future plans in earlier, before the seduction rather than at the LMR but doing it at the LMR still works better than a freeze out in my opinion.
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