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okay i wanna treat this girl like i dont want her just make her like a old friend and bring other girls in front of her
what are some names i could call her, dude, (last name). what else?
what else could i do to make her feel unwanted by me
Nicknames are good, but don't over do it. Usually a few funny and apporpriate nicks will win you some charm, but calling her "short stop" all night will make her want to leave.
I find most guys over do this in general, so don't be that guy. Best approach is just be calm and cool like you are hanging out with an actual "friend". talk about stuff you actually like, don't try to impress by strategizing your convo. Just keep most topics brief and move on unless you pick a winner and she get's really excited by it. Even then, don't linger too long or she will think that's all there is.
Just be sure you aren't ignoreing points of escalation, always be working towards increasing kino. You want her to be relaxed, relaxed and welcoming, not relaxed and bored with just another AFC.
talk to her like a friend, but use body language to make it clear you are into her and want more. Push forward and escalate until you get resistance, then back off for a bit and repeat. never acknowledge resistance, just smile.