Okay, so I have been meeting this girl a few times in a club. The third time she asks me to go back to hers which I did and everything happened... The day after she didn't want me to leave so I stay at hers until 2 p.m. just cuddling in bed with her etc... When I do leave she gives me her hoodie as it was raining and cold but now over txt she doesn't seem very interested for example I told her I liked her hoodie and she could have one of mine instead for a little bit but she said no and that she wants hers back... so far I have taken this as a sign that she's not interested in me... But I will have to go back to hers and return it to her on saturday in two days when I'm back in the city... I wanna take her out for a drink but should I ask? How do I go about it? If I'm honest I would describe this girl to be like the girl 'Style' falls in love with at the end part of the book 'The Game'. Really unsure about this girl but I like her a lot so any help would be really appreciated!

You shouldn't have mentionned the hoodie, next time, let her mention something like that to you and be like "Oh yeah, I had forgotten about it". You're not presenting yourself as a challenge any longer so she's losing interest.

My honest suggestion is to flake on Saturday. Even though you want to see her badly, just don't, if she mentions the hoodie just say invite her non-directly (like "Well next weekend we can go for drinks and I'll give it to you then").

When you do give it to her, neg her about it. And become a challenge again. You've been too complient with her so far (staying until 2pm was way way too late, and she didn't even cook for you).

Hope this helps

Cheers!

Awesome help, thanks man