Took this girl out on the second date the other night. Went really well, could tell she was into me, conversation flowed well, etc. Anyway I have a general policy that I don't go for the k-close until situation will allow me to bring it home as it too often diffuses the underlying sexual tension. So we're in the cab home and were playing the question game for the last half hour when she asks "how do you decide when you're going to make a move on a girl." At that point I contemplated it as it was clearly an opening but figured since it's obviously getting in her head I'd just go with it. Told her only when it feels right, and the moment just has to strike. So then later we're talking and I asked her the same question and she said she somewhat agreed but like it to be early, then said "I thought you were going to make a move tonight but waiting for the right moment makes sense." I told her I'm not that easy and maybe we'll go out Thursday. So everythings been going to plan so far but now the issue is that by addressing it head on she's kind of built it up to more than it has to be. I've never had it get to someone to the point that they actually asked about it. Anyway I think I'm good here but just wanted to get your thoughts.

Why wouldnt you kiss her at that point? Or at least at the end of the date after the cab ride. She already said she wanted you to kiss her and she wanted it to be kind of early. The fact you didnt kiss her after two dates might push you into the friend zone, especially when she told you she wanted it.

I don't think friend zone is too much of a concern because frame has already been established. And at that point, I'm not going to kiss her just bc she asked; I had already established that it's done on my terms. So probably next time out but thought it was a funny situation.