I've been hanging out with this HB 9 for at least a month. She calls and texts me all the time to get together. Immediatley after I started hanging out with her I did a fantastic job of befriending her roommates and closest friend who comes around all the time. Her friends love me. Here's the weird situation, it's been over a month and I haven't so much as kissed this chick. We're both in college and live in the same apartment complex, so it's pretty easy to see each other on a regular basis. Every time we're alone and we start rubbing on each other or getting closer, building up for a kiss, she will suddenly say "I'm going home" or (if we're at her place) she'll suddenly get up and move to another spot farther away from me. We kino eachother with a lot of touch and playful physical flirting. We had spent so much time together that the kiss should have naturally happened a long time ago. After a while, I just chalked it up to this girl wanting to be my friend (not once in my life have I had a girl tell me she just wants to be friends) and nothing more. Yesterday morning I met her at her place early in the morning because we had made plans to go hiking together. Her best friend, another girl, had slept over at her place. My target goes back into her room to finish getting ready and the first thing her friend asks me when my target is out of the room is "have you kissed her yet?" I say "no." The friend says "you need to get on that right away." I interpreted that as my target and her friend had talked about it, and the friend was trying to give me some push so I would pull the trigger and kiss my target. I didn't get a chance to try to kiss my target during our hike; too hot and sweaty and uncomfortable. We haven't talked since the hike yesterday morning. This girl is pretty young and maybe just immature about this stuff. How would you guys handle this? I've never been the "just grab and kiss" type of guy. Maybe I should try it for the first time and see how it goes. I've always been the "get a little closer and closer and then kiss at the peak of the moment" type, but every time I'm doing this with her she pulls away. Any advice is appreciated.

Go caveman.

Agreed Sparroww. Some girls just want you to go for it all out. I spoke with a girl who was a friend of mine and she told me how whenever this guy tried to kiss her she would always turn away. She did it for weeks until he just held her up against the wall and kissed her, she says it was the best kiss she ever had.

Obviously if she tells you to stop you need to stop, but show a little more aggression. When that build up starts...just go for it. If she tries to leave, grab her by the wrist and pull her back!!