Okay so long story short: met this chick at a party 10 days ago. We immediately hit it off and had a great conversation for about an hour. She added me on FB, snapped a pic of us with her phone and gave me a hug before leaving. *Those were big signals that she liked me* Then last weekend I invited her out and we went to a bar, got drunk, hung out on the beach, made out and then she apparently had to go. Before leaving she told me to "Don't be shy and call me whenever you want".

We live kinda far from each other (about one and a half hours) and I think that creates sort of a natural barrier for us to see each other more than I would like. However I may be wrong, because I am sort of confused about what she wants from me.
After the night when we made out I called and texted her and she ignored for the whole day and then called me the next day and we talked for like an hour. I am surprised because this is the first girl I've ever met that I can strike up and keep a convo going for so long, oh and by the way I am the one always ending the phone convos cause she just keeps going and going lol. The convos are pretty relxed and are mostly about what happened that day.

Anyway on Monday we made plans to see each other on Tuesday and she flaked out because she had "other things to do" which was going to watch a baseball game with her guy friend and she didn't hesitate to tell me about it... So by now I am thinking okay this HB is playing a game for sure. Yet we kept calling each other and made plans for Thursday. Then in a phone convo yesterday she told me she has other things going on like a friend's party and someone else invited her somewhere, so she might not even come visit me. I just told her okay do whatever you want and started to tell her how I had to go, but she didn't want to let me go and kept talking to me... *Again this is where I feel confused, if she picks, or at least pretends to pick to hang out with other dudes instead of me, why does she like talking to me so much over the phone???* Anyway she keeps talking about this weekend and how she wants to get away and go somewhere on a mini vacation for the weekend with me. But I am almost certain this is a shit test, unless of course she flaked on me only because we are so far apart. To this vacation thing I just replied: Lets discuss it when we meet on Thurr.

So yeah guys, sorry I couldn't keep it shorter, just a lot of stuff I had to explain to paint a clear picture. What am I doing wrong? What should I be doing? And post up any other suggestions you may have...

Thanks!

-Cylinder.

Show disinterest. Recalibrate, make sure she knows that you don't need her. She feels in control. The distance between you two is an advantage. You can always have her to fall back on more or less. When you're home and have no girl to call etc. call her up and work on your game. I recommend calling her late at night AFTER you've just had fun with friends or gotten with another girl. Then you're in a good mindset and can focus on what needs to be done. If you get her to hangout again or agree to hangout I'd recommend acting as if you may not be able to go (after you've already agreed to meet up). "My friend's having a party and kind of wants me there.. I'm not sure what time hers'll be done but I'll let you know as soon as I find out."
The her makes the HB think "wait what he's hanging out with some other girl"; generating some DHV for you.

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