she always texts back (though she never says goodnight, just falls asleep), she seems happy or she emoticons a lot, she has stated she likes me. I even decided to ask what she likes about me and she answered quite detailedly, however with all that she comes out of no where and says she can't see me for almost 3 months. I took that as a heavy iod, so i responded by just not contacting her. I'm having second thoughts though. she's extremely insecure, and i'm wondering if she might be just afraid to see me. (i met her on a social network). or she could be playing hard to get, but since i like her I can't think rationally. What do you guys think?

Have you asked her the reason why she couldn't see you? or you just assumed the worst...?

no i haven't but i know she won't be traveling for that long. i've been currently freezing her out. should i break the freeze and ask? I also know she has like events bday parties and such here in tx, she even has a school event shes going to for the uni.

First a question then some comments. Have you ever seen this girl in person or have u just talked online n through text? Next read up on text game on this forum. Chances r u couldve played alot better. If she is not ending convos or starting them...that's no good. Also, if she said she can't see you for three months n isn't going to another country...no good. It seems to me that this is a girl you met online who you probably hit up a bunch. She thinks your an ok guy n she doesn't want to be rude, but she obviously isn't in to you. No one is busy for three months to the point they can't find ANY time to chill with someone they r into. She may like things about you, but that doesn't really matter. I dunno I would say fuck this girl...there are so many girls on this planet its pointless to waste time on ones that aren't working. Take it as a learning experience n play better next time.

[quote="kinorc"]First a question then some comments. Have you ever seen this girl in person or have u just talked online n through text? Next read up on text game on this forum. Chances r u couldve played alot better. If she is not ending convos or starting them...that's no good. Also, if she said she can't see you for three months n isn't going to another country...no good. It seems to me that this is a girl you met online who you probably hit up a bunch. She thinks your an ok guy n she doesn't want to be rude, but she obviously isn't in to you. No one is busy for three months to the point they can't find ANY time to chill with someone they r into. She may like things about you, but that doesn't really matter. I dunno I would say fuck this girl...there are so many girls on this planet its pointless to waste time on ones that aren't working. Take it as a learning experience n play better next time.[/quote]

no i haven;t met her in real life. No to the rest of what you said, I never said she doesn't start conversations. She texts me first a lot of times, twice in a row as well. we've talked about sex and relationships and about stuff we could do together. Also she said she couldn't see me until the summer, were her exact words

freeze out i think is working

freeze out worked, s3 obtained

I don't know what s3 means...but if you froze her out n that worked for you im def happy for u buddy. Play well and smash.