soooo i got a huge problem
my game is great until ii get to the last stage
the day 2 and the close,,,
I have closed many numbers and met alot of girls..
so heres the problem:

I Look at the girl and ask myself "should i kiss her or not" and at the end i dont kiss her and hate myself for the rest of the day. I havent kissed yet but my game is great.
I dont care if i wont succeed kissing the girl and she will slap me, i dont care if she will tell all her freinds that i kiss awful...

I dont know what to do

PLEASE HELP1!

Hello,
I'm very new to the game so my advice is a newbie advice, but in my case where not that long ago I was hopeless, absolutely hopeless I've done on and off night game for about 5 months and I've had 30-35 makeouts with chicks, how should it be done ?
I've no idea (!) go to some venue (I like student parties) and test for yourself and you'll get the intuition when it's the "right" moment, usually what I do is I go stretch out my right hand like a gentleman, usually she reciprocates, then I gently grab her left hand with my right hand and vice-versa, dance a bit, then take her by the waist, get closer and sometimes they kiss first ! my last dozen makeouts was that way ! In case of rejection it's ok, she'll just turn her face away, just leave her and move on to the next chick as fast as possible, (easy to say I know...)
But in day game I've failed thus far to makeout with an unknown chick, still hope it helps you a bit, I got problems with day 2 as well, read my post (just before yours )

Its all about creating a moment and then capitalizing on it. If your waiting for some magic moment to happen, it wont. If the entire time you are with her you have a fun sexual frame and keep escalating kino, you literally have no other choice than to kiss her. Don't think about kissing her or make that your goal. One it takes you out of the moment, and two its not the goal. The goal is to fuck her. Instead keep the sexual undertonez up, be fun and flirtatious, and when you start to feel it just go. Its like jumping off a cliff...if u sit around n think about it you will never do it. You have to just go. If you have been building the tension up, it will just seem normal. You will create this little universe between the two of you, and once you get the energy moving, GO.

lol, last time on my 2nd date we held hands and i kissed her on the cheek and i hated myself for the rest of the day
i was thinking of not going too far next time
dunno..

Generate physical familiarity with kino. Diving in for the kiss if you're not comfortable with close touch and breaking that physical barrier with an immediate kiss will feel strange for almost every single girl. Study natural game. Go watch videos from Gambler, you'll learn a ton of great stuff about generating physical familiarity escalating sexual state with a girl. Use two steps forward one step back and you'll start to build that sexual tension between the two of you. The girl should be giving you the "all I want to do is jump your bones I'm so turned on right now" look by the time you two kiss. If you can do that, she'll melt during that first kiss.

Women place A LOT of pressure on the first kiss with a man. Many women believe that a first kiss is representative of how well the entire relationship will progress. If you mess up the first kiss you can potentially kill all hope you had with a girl. It's good to be a good kisser, but more than anything it's about the state she's in when you two finally kiss for the first time. Good luck!

Fuck that...make the ho say no dude....you don't want to be a nice guy...you want to be a guy who's fucking your target. I would rather have a girl say "aren't you agressive" than "aren't you a sweetheart". Become a predator...not in a creepy way, but in the way you see what you want and you get it. Wouldn't you rather have a girl wake up in your bed like how did that happen as opposed to waking up in her bed n thinking you may be a great friend?!

Hes right. The solution to your problem is to simply stop being a bitch and control the damn frame. Neil Strauss just made a playlist on you tube about frame control which highlights certain celeberities. Check that out thats EXACTLY what you need right now

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