Hung out once and been texting(she is interested(?))



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PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2011 6:02 pm 
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Okay so a girl and myself would be eye fucking at the local supermarket,(her looking at my arms, checking out my sleeve, etc). Give it some time i found i knew one of her best friends, after building a reputation with the friend(who is no doubt attracted to me herself), i eventually walked into the store one day to find them at the enterance, i gave them a cold shoulder and acted like i was texting, this encouraged them to walk in front of me slowly.

The girl im interested happend to open the conversation very confidentally(i found this sexy), from there i neged her, ive found i do this naturally(a fair bit too much). Eventually i added her on facebook, and eventually got her number.

We hung out, she detailed alot about herself personally(i figured to let her talk about herself), she did talk about ex's but i chose to give roughly a third of my attention to this, we had alot of fun... and this lead her walking closely to me, and showing some lOls (licking her lips, using lip balm whilst gazing into my eyes(was in a public area at the time), and later her offering to use the lip balm), the day was intended to run longer but was cut short because her mum told her to come home quick because she had to go an engagement party. When i dropped her home she sed she had fun(shes 17, im 19).

Anyway, since then a week has passed, i texted her the day after, and there was alot of response, in bulk. We work in the same area and i walked in one day and bumped into her, she had a shit day so she was not as confident or loud as usual, she texted "Im sorry if it was awckward, my day has been the worst" i texted back "No stress, hope it gets better :)"

I let that sink for 3 days and i walked into her work place again, this time i walked through like in my general manner(ahead of her, talking with my back facing her). She asked me to come in and show me more of my tattoo when its done, i said i would, and eventually walked out(we did have some strong conversation)

ANYWAY, the next day she texted me, and i kept it short and sweet.

That was yesterday, so today i decided to text her and eventually lead me saying i want to do something by the end of the week, and then we established id call her.

My question is from now, on the second 'date', what moves should i make, and should i actually call her.


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PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2011 10:14 pm 
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Yes, she likes you. Any time a girl starts talking herself up a lot or her accomplishments she qualifying herself. She's basically saying "see, I'm high enough quality to be included in your life."

To answer your question about what do on your second date, it's simple, don't F it up. Have you ever seen the movie Hitch with Will Smith? There's a lot of fluff in that film, but there's actually a lot of truth. He says in the beginning of the film that what guys don't get is if a girl agrees to go on a date with you, she already likes you. Your job now isn't to get her to like you, but rather to not mess it up. Especially if it's a second or third date you can know so far so good.

Do some activity that will display value and kino escalate. A lot of pua guys stress kino, and it is crucial but also delicate depending on the girl. Kino escalate while not being creepy and remember 2 steps forward one step back. Good luck.


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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 1:18 pm 
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Yeah okay, so true. So in addition to this, how often should i be texting her?


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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 1:38 pm 
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PurePlaya is sooo right

She will never agree to a second date unless she wants something to happen, and in my eyes its pretty obvious shes into you. (e.g, the instant text apologising when she had a bad day)

With regards to texting, until a girl is actually my 'girlfriend' i will text them the same as they text me. If it takes them an hour to text back, il wait at least an hour before texting back depending on if im busy or not.

Good luck man
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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 1:41 pm 
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haha yeah i usually do that, but ill trey rephrase that.. sorry

I mean, when i open a texting conversation, in terms of day... should i text her every day? once every 2 days?

Thanks so much!
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PostPosted: Thu May 05, 2011 1:49 pm 
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haha aah my bad

personally i dont open a text conversation unless i have something decent to say, this keeps it from being boring.

It also depends on the kind of girl she is, if she likes that constant communication then every day will not harm you. If she's free spirited then waiting a day or two might be a good thing to do, the key is you have something to actually talk about.

It seems like youve done well so far so just do whatever you feel is right within the situation

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