| How do I recover from sending a regrettable text the day after I got with the girl I've liked for months? She confessed to me that night that she's liked me for ages aswell, she's just been 'playing it cool'. I knew she liked me, yet kept messing up my chances with her everytime we went out. We'd get drunk at the student bar every Thursday and go out in a group somewhere afterwards, and it would always be me and her talking most of the night. This night (last week) i went to hers and kissed her and stuff, even kissed her on some other girls bed as she walked in on us. No sex, but i'm confident i made a good impression.
After a long, intense night, we both went our separate ways back to our flats, and texted eachother for a good hour, while crazy drunk. I was saying how attractive I found her, and how I want this to go somewhere, being intense, but drunk so it's excusable. She was saying how she didnt want anything 'big' right now, and that she'll text me tomorrow. So she did the next morning, saying 'Sorry if i was being a bitch, was just all getting a bit intense.' I text back saying she wasnt, and that i was happy we got together. We established that we'd see eachother after the easter holidays (3 weeks). (Both in the same university course.)
It's what i sent after that which is worrying, i said '____ I feel like a dickhead. Sorry if I came on too strong and made you uncomfortable. It's just that I like you loads and was tired of always screwing up every chance I had with you. And I was really pissed, ha. See ya after easter, yeah? : )' I know, I shouldnt have been so apologetic and told her i kept screwing my chances.
She responded:
'Hey, yeah I was really drunk too. was a pretty messy night. Don't worry about it honestly, its cool : ) Yeah have a good time at home n stuff x'
That was a whole week ago, and the last I heard of her. What's the next step? I've thought about texting her asking how home's going... or maybe I should wait til after the holidays, and til we next have lessons, and act cool.. so I won't look so clingy? I don't want her to think she has me wrapped around her finger, that's unattractive to girls. Sorry for how much I just typed, any help is so greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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