I still have this oneitus (my gf cheated on me and dumped me some 3 months ago) so I was thinking that it would be a good idea to get some easy sex from my ex ex ex gf (back in 2006).

About a week ago I randomly bumped into her on the street after 4-5 years of no contact (she dumped me back the btw, I was too much in love with her). We talked for a few minutes and said goodbye.

I added her on facebook after I got home and wrote her that it was fun meeting her after all these years and asked her if she wanted to have a bottle of wine with me and hang out. She replied within a minute that it was a good idea and she gave me her phone number. I called her a few hours later and agreed to meet on either Friday or Saturday, depending on her schedule. She said she would call but she never did (she was at home both days, posting shit on facebook). Now I tried to call her today in the afternoon (only once), but she didn't answer, and wouldn't call me back either.

I know that she is single (or at least not in a LTR).

What should I do from here? I just want to fuck her a few times and move on. Why is she doing this? What would be a good tactic? Any help is appriciated.

Hey dude.

A mistake was that you gave her the controll over the date.
You have to say when and if she doesn´t have time on Friday but she would have time on Saturday it´s ok too but the date has to be clear.
I know this :p
Concerning my experience everytime when a girl says that she will call me/text me it won´t happen. I don´t know why this is the way it is but it happened to me too often that I never belive in what a woman says if it is about a date. I set the date and the activity and I think they like it more if you take over the controll.

I think you should wait and stop calling/texting her for a week. Maybe you will see her again but it will seem needy if you call her because if she breaks her promise she isn´t worth your time.

Hope I could help you.

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I don´t guarantee any success. Every gamestyle is different because every person is different so not all material will work.
I can only give tips due to my experience.

Thanks for your help!

I wrote her again on facebook 3 days ago that we should definitely meet up so that she could tell me all the gossips and crazy news on Kierkegaard and Nietzsche (she studies philosophy in uni). She seems to like this message because she replied:

":) how about friday night?"

but then I wrote her that I can't make it on Friday, let's meet on either Thursday or Saturday.

No reply. WTF is this?? Any suggestions pls?