I went to the bar across the street from where i live with two co-workers after work. There was a man playing saxaphone who had a HB7 as a girlfriend. I knew this because she is a bartender there. Anyhow, i worked the m3 model. Things felt natural because this bar is sort of my second home lol. She brought up the fact that she had dated a guy in a prominent hardcore biker gang in my area. After that i sort of locked up and mindfucked myself. I continued on with some bs talk and eventually ejected myself. What should I have done? I felt like i could never compete with that

There's no need to try and compete with other guys, just focus on whatever you're doing. It's just like when a girl has a boyfriend, you don't mention him ever, you'll just lose.

i went back and she was happy to see me. We just talked and had some things in common. She asked me for my number and we are hopefully going to meet up this week. Thanks for the advice