well a girl said i am too cocky and that i am too full of myself. she also stated that if i am not such an asshole,more chicks would be into me.

so whats the plan here. should i be less cocky/funny or just continue.

Well, it depends on how she said it. I probably would've just said, "sounds like you're jealous your not full of me too." But that can always backfire, I just think it's funny.

sounds like a test. you are who you are - you're not going to let some girl you just met tell you what's wrong with your personality.

what would you say to a guy that said that to you? probably bust his chops back.


I'd say something like, "more chicks into me? but why would I lower my standards? to let YOU in?" smile while delivering, laugh after, touch arm to show you don't literally mean to insult her.

You probably come off as too cocky. Likely a combo of your ego growing out of your head and your C&F vibe. Especially as of late, I've been guilty of going over the top on both. The way I remedy it is to show bits and pieces of the nice guy and the playful little child underneath (I do this naturally, but I doubt it's hard to do it consciously). That way, she gets turned on by the cocky macho (attraction) but also becomes curious about digging up more of the nice guy underneath (comfort/curiosity). And what girl doesn't want to tame the lion who could slash the whole herd?

Haha crazy yeah. I got the same thing the other morning. I was told I was too cocky by this girl and she said it in a way that sounded like she was annoyed and it was something I needed to work on with my personality. But the funny thing is, this convo was happening while we were lying together naked in bed. I'd f*%kd her the night before. So wtf? I'm a little confused about that. lol

lol there is probably ways to get around it like these guys said ^ ..
but if it was like an insult to me its one girl and if she was being an absollute bitch, some need to be put in there place, i am way better then every girl i would pull something along the lines of " you should lower your standards, i did" glance at her and then dip ahahaha

Don't listen to these guys that keep telling you these cocky funny lines, they don't know what the fuck they're talking about


If a girl says something like that, she's really helping you. It's not a test or an insult, she's just commenting that she doesn't like your cocky attitude. You must be going a bit over the top, just tone it down a little.