i did my routine at a bar this past weekend. I seen a really cute girl and walked up to her telling in her ear " your lip pearcing is really cute" when ever im in a club and am performing a opener i ussually pull them close with a hand around and on the side of the hip. and whisper in there ear. so i said this is smiled and said thank you, i then proceeded to tell her that she had an unbaleivable dress on it looked really pretty, i approached her from the front as she was walking by and a table where all my friends were sitting at i got her back to the table and she was giving me great IOI's and flerting i then did the mystery number routine. said " do you beileve in magic" i guessed both 3 and 7 correct, she didnt beileve in magic at all when i asked her. she was impressed and counldt beileve it, after this i ussaully am touching there hands i made the routine a bit diffrent i tell them to look at there palm and imagine the number is on it and then i touch there hand and then say the number, when i touch there hand i can then lead myself into palm reading, in the middle of a little heart and life line trick, her friend came up and asked her to go looking for there friend....

now this is the part where im confused she asked me for my number! i asked her "are you leaving?" she said no not yet, so i said "well then how about ill stay here (im with my friends anyways) and you come back and find me" she laughed and said okay she will be back.... and im not sure what happened but i didnt see her again.

so.. im not sure by turning her down i am making it more of a game, making it seem more like im not just trying to pick her up, not jumping to the conclusion rite away, i figured it would give me more mystery? give me some feed back so i dont mess up again ahah thanks boys.

I understand that you wanted to be more mysterious.. I tried it too a couple times. But what i think is that in a bar/club that is pretty busy and a lot of energy i wouldnt bet on seeing her again.

I tried what you tried and the girl was all over me .. (lot of touching and stuff) and her friend took her away too... Said she would come back.. never did...

So this is my opinion on this..

yeah, basically you were trying to attract her when she was already attracted. I've been there before dude. It comes from a deep rooted subconscious belief that you have to do a lot of stuff for a girl to like you EVEN WHEN THEY ARE ALREADY GIVING YOU SIGNS THAT THEY LIKE YOU. I've done it many many times before and it took me a while to get over it.
But, the bottomline is once a girl is giving you IOIs, you can start trying to go to the next phases after attraction. Don't get me wrong though, even after I move on to other phases, I still do "attraction" type stuff sprinkled in. But the key word is SPRINKLED IN.
You kind of punished her for good behavior, which is bad. You never wanna give any sign of disinterest right after a girl gives you a sign of interest (like asking for your number). Especially a big sign of interest like that. A lot girls aren't gonna ask for your number even when they are really attracted, so when they do, don't punish them for it by denying her.
Ya feels me?

Yeah, u should hav gave her your number. She may have assumed you were being polite nice guy and just left you to it.

Dude she probably got embarrassed and thought you weren't interested. We spend so much time trying to improve our own game and forget that girls WANT to be picked up, spoken to, seduced etc... If she went out on a limb and tried her a number close on you and (as far as she knows) got rejected it would feel shitty, and you'd have to have some seriously high value for her to continue pursuing you.

Hope this helps,
Crayon

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