Hey gamers!

I've got this weared situation:

Known this girl for some time now, we were realy close.
At first she liked to kiss me and cudle but no sex.
Then we broke up, she came back to me.
Then one night she gave me a bj and a hj but she won't kiss me anymore :S.

And I feel like she's drifting away from me...
She Doesn't realy mind if I go away or if she can't see me in private.
But she keeps telling me she can't lose me :S..
Could I be sliding into the best friend zone? Becouse she still wants to do "normal" stuff with me. Like hanging out etc.

What should I do?

Some more detailed information,


the girl im seeing right now has a boyfriend.
first 2 months we just hugged and an occasional kiss.
then she said she can't go on like this. That she realy realy loves me but she didn't know if she was in love with me. And said i want to see you as the best friend i ever had with a golden crown, but i can't leave my bf becouse every thing is still good.

ok so I was still talking to her but very rarely.

then one day she asked me to come over, so i did.
then she gave me a BJ and a HJ we also would have had sex if she didn't have her period.
that was 4 weeks ago.
the strange thing though now she won't kiss me any more :S. Not even a quick one on the lips as i leave.(she did that before we broke up)
We still hug and escalate kino, but i feel like im slipping away. Maybe into the friend zone maybe totally gone.
I didn't have a chance to go for a second night for sex yet. So that sucks.
She wants to hang out with me more on "normal" activities like going to the gym or a cabaret she asked me if i came with her and a friend of hers but i said no. I have other things to do (sports training) etc.
But i feel like there is still more distance between us then before we broke up.
she said she didn't mind when i leave (afther ive been there) and before she was way more talking about her feelings towards me and that she missed me etc.
Before she also send me way more emails and texts.
However she keeps saying that she can't go on without me...
Thats why she came back.
I'm realy confused what to do right now, is she in love with me? (or how do i help her over the hump to become in love with me)
She also said that she looked at me differently now that she "owns" me, wich isnt true becouse we are not realy a couple as long as she is with her current boyfriend. (haven't told her that yet)
I also want to see her more often and longer, every time i go there its only for 1 hour or so. But if i tell her that it might seem like i want to claim her (wich is bad). (so dunno if i should tell her that)
Another thing is, if she wants us both at the same time (atleast for now becouse im not going for that...) she should spend as much time with me as with him, wich isnt the case right now. (also the claming thing i dunno if i should tell her)

so all in all, we are back together becouse of her.(she made the step)
but it feels so much more distand. Feels like she isn't as much excided about me as before :S.
i want her to fall in love with me.