I was talking to this blonde at the bar friday night and it was goin well. Talked alot about sports and that just made it more awesome. Any way we agreed on metting up and watching a ball game sometime. But when i went for the number close she wouldnt give it to me. I had to be fast cuz my ride was leaving. She said that we should meet up and then we'll see about a number. So i made up a time and date to meet up. Two weeks from now lol. I didnt want to meet her the next night i had stuff planed and this weekend coming im goin out of town to TN to try out some new things. Im not holding my breath on this one but i want to know how i can go about it when i get into a situation like that again. Thanks fellas!

I would have given her my number along with saying something funny like "jeeze I didn't know you were so shy" or something like that. I know that's not what you want but if neither of you guys has each other's numbers the odds of you two seeing each other again greatly diminish. Especially 2 weeks out. If it's the next day that's a tad bit different. She's most likely to flake now.

Then again she'd still have the power if she only had your number but at least you would have a better shot. Otherwise there's no communication for specific meet up plans like time and place when it comes to the day because neither of you guys has each other's number.

Oh, and it doesn't have to be a number I would have asked her for facebook or e-mail if she refused her number THEN if she still refused that I would have just given her my info.

We did set a specific time date and location. I do like your comment back. I should have tried to get a facebook or a email. Rookie mistakes. I'm still learning. I think I did well with the rest of the weekend.

I agree, without a number its basically a shot in the dark. I wouldnt completley give up though.


Believe it or not this has actually happened to me before. I actually ended up seeing her again at the same place before out scheldule'd meet up....And i had more than enough time to close with number. I suggest you keep keep an eye out and do the same!! goodluck