Okay, well theres this girl I have known for a while and used to work with. I've had her number for a while and just recently we've been texting a lot more. We plan to hang on Tuesday night I just need some help with this. I just need some advice on not texting back too soon and possibly some date ideas. I know were going to get some wings (her idea shes been craving them) but any advice or help to try to take it to the next level? I could really see this girl, being something more than just a girl I talk to daily.

Ok a good rule is if she takes longer to respond back than you do to her, respond back in at least the amount of time it took her to respond back to you. You can even take the time and multiply it by 1.5 if you want. Say she took 10 minutes to respond so you take 15. She took 12 hours her next, then you take 18 ect. But there's no strict rule, just don't text back "instantly" like within 30 sec of receiving each and every one of her texts.

It's what you say in your texts that are more important.

If I were you I'd take her for wings then try and either go back to your place, a movie, or somewhere where you can do kino and cold routines with her and move in for a possible kiss.

Here's a texting game guide:


http://www.sendspace.com/file/znut0u

Have been looking for a way to improve my text game for a lonng time.Thanks SO much chazman I love you x

those are two different questions diesel90 .... in terms of when to text back, i agree with the post earlier (in part) -- if you two are going back and forth, then you shouldnt stall long....you should text back quickly (along with her).....at least for a few texts in a row (to keep the chat going)....but if it takes her a few min to reply, then there is no problem waiting even longer to reply.


and, as for the date....if she picked wings....what are you asking? for something other than wings??? she picked her 'desire' ... why do you want to mess with that???? or --- maybe i didnt understand the question, can you ask again?

Okay well, we went for wings and frozen yogurt last night and it went great. We definetly hit it off very well and will be going out again soon. I felt she wanted to kiss me but I didn't rush it. Thanks everyone for all your help. Hopefully sooner or later me and her can take it to the next level.