So went on a date with a HB7 and everything went well. I kept the kino going the entire time as much as I could and had what I felt was the opportunity to kiss-close a few times throughout the date (all of which i bitched out because well im an inexperienced AFC ). The date lasted 4 hours and there wasn't a moment of awkward silence or dry conversation so I know she enjoyed herself as well. At the end we both had to take different subways and she started moving in and I got a hug (I know so lame on my part).

so I guess what I want to know is...

1. Am I in the friend zone if I didnt close a kiss on the first date?
2. How long should I wait to text/talk to her and also try to setup another date
3. This maybe the afc in me but if it where me id want to text her tomorrow and be like "hey had a great time last night when can we meet up again?".

Comments / help greatly appreciated.

P.S. shes 19 im 23... donno if that influences your decisions. Also she has only had 1 bf and it was a long distance relationship that lasted 2 years according to her so she may just be uber shy even more so than I.

Im not as qualified as most of the guys here but figured id give my 2cents in order calm ur anxiety (i get it to bro).

- providing the location was right u should have went in for the kiss since kino went well and u guys clicked. dont stress it tho, jus b ready next time. ur not in friendzone yet but definately risk it if u dont plan ur steps from here on out.

- some guys advise to call whenever u feel like it but i found it much better to wait 2 days after date b4 contacting her. i usually send a c/f opener and leave them hangin once we hit a high point. then contact by phn/txt on and off for a few days. whatever u do, dont ask for a date. once u reach a high point u have to imply or plan for her after finding out her schedule.


- no need to say u had a good time. she should have thanked u if anything. shes only 19 so expect alot of mind games and make it clear by ur actions u dont NEED her.

hope tht helps buddy