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i like it that you complimented her in a different way that other people do. It is always good to be atypical, interesting and original. think that the clip of the fb chat you had with her didnt have any substance to it. you sounded too agreeable. when speaking to a girl or anyone else it's good to be more expressive, describe what it is like to do that activity or the nature of a particular object by using expressive adjectives, feelings and emotions.
in the case of feeding ducks, you can make her feel good and elaborate the topic in an emotional way. you can talk about how you feel when you see the ducks now compared to when you first saw the ducks when you were a child and express the excitement and exhilaration you felt then. you can joke around and make some duck sounds in a funny way or ask the girl to treat you like duck and feed you some bread and visa versa (this shows that you are wacky, playful and can have a laugh). ducks are usually found in parks so you could ask her about what did she like to play in the park such as the playground e.g. swings, climbing frames and ask what it made her feel.
this is how you should connect from one conversation topic to the next, find links in them. the idea is to make the girl feel good about herself by talking about things which have deep emotional content.
you could ask her to meet you at the park somewhere. you could go to the park first and then grab a drink afterwards.
you should never tell or assume a girl is a weirdo, you'll end up looking like an idiot, insulting her and completely blow it. if you are worried if the girl appears to be a weirdo, you could ask one of your friends to call you about 20-30 mins into the date and pretend it is an emergency call, if the girl is a weirdo you can take the call and pretend that one of your friends is in hospital and you have to leave urgently, if she is not a weirdo and the date is going well, then you ignore the phone call. girls do this all the time for each other in case the guys turns out to be a weirdo.
here are some notes about how to build attraction and rapport:
women like men who are observant and situational. notice things about ur target, what she is wear (clothes, jewelry etc). so if u notice something about her (do not comment on how beautiful she is) tell her about it e.g. u notice her bracelet, when talking to her, take hold of her wrist gently and say "wow this is an interesting bracelet, whats the story behind it?", there's always a background story behind women\s accessories. be situational about the environment you are in, whats happening, what do you see, make a statement about it or ask her opinion on it. being situational is much better than scripted material.
one thing you should know is when to tease (push pull technique, negging etc). they should only be used if ur target is a 7.5 or above (or the girls who think they are 7.5 or above whereas in actual fact they are not). if you were to tease a girl below that rating, you would end of hurting and insulting them. in exclaimer for using negging and teasing is that one should positively validate their target before they negatively validate them. the reason to do it in this way is because one must hook their target in order to get their attention. so after the positive validation (for a set who is +7.5) you negatively validate them (tease, push) in order to put yourself at a higher level than them because at the beginning they are higher than you. the main reason why it is good to use negging is to challenge the ego of a girl of high calibre which is something that a typical afc does not do. and by doing this, it shows that u r a man that has high standards and does not go for just any girl and this will make the girl more interested and it will compel her to work harder to gain your approval because you have showed disinterest in her, told her that she does not fit your standards (negative validation). girls always want the guys that is surrounded by women and guys which are difficult to get, its a challenge for women to go after those guys.
building rapport is a very interesting process. in order to build a great emotional connection one must choose to talk about things which have deep emotional content. it does not matter what the girl does or likes, you can connect with her even if you have dissimilar interests. as you know all occupations and hobbies are completely different in their complexity, principles and structure, but there is one thing which all of them have in common/share "EMOTIONS". one must be empathetic and show a girl that u understand why she chose to do that job or hobbie by expressing the emotions that one feels when doing that activity, it shows that you're really trying to get to know her, and she will think "wow this is a great guy to talk to, he's making an effort to understand me, but wait, i dont know anything about him" and this will compel her to ask you questions and u can freely express yourself how ever much u want as long as u express urself passionately and positively. all the men dont do this at all and do not understand how much empathy is a powerful force and openly allow themselves to be perceived to see a girl superficially. you can use the concept of 'rapport' to ur advantage as well.
in order for you to build greater rapport with her, get used to asking more open-ended questions e.g. "what have you been up to?" or "What did u get up to today?", my one: "What monkey business did u get up to today?". dont use questions like "wats up hun?", thats a closed-ended question which the girl would simply answer and she wont give u much material to work on in order to reach the hook point.
and connect on her answers in a positive way. dont be afraid to tease her as well. dont be afraid to create impact. when telling a girl about a situation that happened to u on that day or in the week, give more details about it, women love details. it is also good to read the local news paper, women are usually very aware what happens in the world, u should as well. u can get her point of view on something in the news (nothing to do with which celebrity had sex with who) e.g. political, environmental, sociological etc and then she would ask you what u think and you can manipulate the conversation which can lead anywhere u want.
another way u can have an "endless conversation" is the principle of "Question, statement, Question, statement, Q, S, Q, S etc". so u ask an open question, receive the answer, and then make a statement about the last thing she said in order to ask a deeper question. this process can go round in a circle, it can go on for ages.
Hope that i have helped. Happy gaming dude
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