Quick back story, Ive been gaming this girl I knew a few years ago after she re-contacted me. Through this forum and the local PUAs in Melbourne it has been established that she likes me, A LOT apparently. She is hot so Im keen too I guess. Here is the catch tho, is acts super prissy and proper, im talking like sits up straight, bats her eyelashes etc. so she wont call me out I would assume. Also she knows she is hot so likes to play hard to get. That would be fine normally since I do the same and she would melt into my hands. However, a freak weather event ruined things for me (well not really but just read on), here is how it went in the past week;

WED - We met again, interest was established, I promised to call her on the weekend

SAT - I decided to text and we ended up not meeting that night because I might have overplayed the "hard to get" card. Reflecting back on it she seemed keen

TUES - I invite her to a bar, one text couple of words, no overdoing it. She came despite her not wanting to drink, having work early next morning and dragging her friend with her who btw seemed really unhappy to be there (since she also had work and has a bf so doesnt want to socialize with guys). There were also many IOIs that night but I didnt close cuz she left early cuz of work. See how she was playing hard to get, leaving only an hour in? There was also another random girl who was hitting on me that night, I didnt like her cuz she was fat and I told the to the HB, I also told her not to leave us alone cuz I was scared (joke obviousely). She just laughed and left.

WED - She texts me;

HB: Andddd?
ME: and what?
HB: How was ur night, u know what I mean....
ME: oh well... turns out she had a great personality so we went back to mine for some hot, crazy sex on the coffee table. She was incredible and it lasted for hours, her hot swedish friend joined halfway through. It was amazing, although my parents were pissed off about all the broken glass in the kitchen...
HB: so cliche lol
ME: lol yeah I was gonna invite you to join but that would have been TOO cliche...
HB: You should be so lucky... ;P

FRI (last night), I decided to ask her out again cuz we dicussed it on TUE at the bar

ME: So we getting drunk tonight?
HB: Lol where u planing on going?
ME: Idk yet. Ill call my friends see what theyre up to, u got plans?
HB: What? Yeah meeting some frds for drinks later on at switch
ME: What do u mean What? Wheres switch? Ill prob end up in st kilda (area of Melbourne) by the looks of it...
HB: Ur msg didnt make sense, couldnt make out the first word. At knox (this place is faaaaaar away btw, in some backwater part of melb, so it wouldnt have made sense if I "just happen to be there")... lol, hate the rain, im gonna chill after.
ME: lol knox, idk stands for I dont know. Like I said Im gonna be out and about so give me a call leter, come get a drink.

So what happens? The gods of thunder and lightning decided to drop so much fucking rain on melbourne that the roads were nearly knee deep in water so neither me or her or anyone else could physically get anywhere. she texted me. These texts were instant btw, not the customery "give it 20min to reply" girl bs;

HB: Not going out its flooded everywhere!!hows it on your side??
ME: Just as bad, I was already on my way out, hope I dont get stuck somewhere...
HB: How is it??
ME: hows what, Im stuck on the freeway going about 30 trying to get back home...
HB: Shit so its all flooded? Lots of traffic im guessing?
ME: Not too much traffic. I guess ppl got out already. Just got off so now I gotta find a way home without hitting lowlands...
HB: Good Luck, hope u get home safe
ME: Just did, at least now I can tell ppl I drive through a killer flood haha...
HB: lol same. Scary tho!
ME: Lol not nearly as dangerous as some of the stuff ive done... u got a jetski? I feel like waterskiing...
HB: Lmao yeh yeh. I wish!


Moral of the story, our meeting didnt happen last night and I couldnt reschedule for tonight cuz we didnt actually arrange anything specific. So... Should I call again today (its saturday) or wait a few days? and what should I say? Im running out of smartass, confident remarks I can start a convo with and I feel like I might be calling too much.

I was thinking maybe something like - "so I know how much you wanted to meet with me last night but I guess fate had other plans so im gonna give you another chance. Come meet me at XXX tonight..."

Ok so Ill reply to my own thread cuz I did text her so here is an update. Any advice would be apreciated. Several of the melbourne guys think she is really into me and two of the more newbie ones think that she is playing me for attention (although they are newbie so I dont really trust them). Main thing is what do people here think? and most of all what should I do now? Text again in 3,5 or 7 days? or wait for her to text me? Also, if I do text should I ask her to meet me somewhere that night again or should I try push for a proper date a day or two in advance where she actually meets me on her own?

Anyway here is what happened, btw I wasnt really on my game last nite so the second text sounds kinda AFC, my bad;

SAT;

ME: I know you really wanted to come drinking with me last night but fate had other plans so I'm giving you another chance. Come meet me in the city later

HB: Lol fate i cant ive got a 21st. Where u going?

ME: cool have fun then. Im meeting ppl in fed square (part of melbourne) and prob be in one of the cool bars in the city. Its possible that ill go clubbing later too...


I know a really cool cocktail bar so I was thinking sending something like this later in the week; "Two questions. Do u like cocktails? and Are you free on Tues night?"

Thoughts?