Ima keep this short and sweet. I met this girl outside the club last week got her digits etc. We been texting/exchanging pictures. I had a day off today and called her to let her know me and some friends are gonna go downtown to hang out. She didn't pick up so I left her message with the proposal. She sends me a text like an hr later and says I can't attend sorry. What went wrong? My theory is that I didn't build enough attraction yet. But I believe I had the upper hand because I remember texting "I can't send you no freaky pics yet cause you gotta earn em" and she replied "Well Im earning points right?? WTF". Thoughts anyone??

you might have just been thinking too much on it, she might have just been too busy. or other likely scenario is that she's already gone out and hooked up with someone else and you're old news now, not trying to sound like an asshole but a lot of women are flaky

I don't know, it's just me, but maybe the fact that you had been texting so much and exchanging pictures and THEN saying come out to town with me AND my friends might have ruined it.

Obviously your text about "earning" points or picture access was great.

But I think she might have wanted for you to say to her to come out to town with only yourself, considering your previous exchanges. The girl knows why you asked her for her phone number. And if she thinks she's gonna be ONE OF the friends, she probably thinks she misjudged the situation.

Also, it might that you'Re thinking it over a little too much, maybe she just couldn't come.

But if you have been texting and whatnot for a couple of days or even weeks, I think it's safe to say that the fact that she would be ONE of the group, turned her off to the idea.

Just my 2 cents, and you know very well how much I screwed up with texts.