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Hello Gentlemen,
The name's Streetcar and I am seeking some advice, epic is within my reach and I'd love to brainstorm some battle plans and routines to run in regards to my target.
Here's the sitch, I am in my graduating year at a credible acting school in Hollywood California and have been having the time of my life. (a good help of the festivies lies in thanks to PU).
Now, one of the teachers there is a greatly attractive middle aged blonde who, for our intents and purposes, we shall call Ms. D.
So, I love
1. Older women
2. Blondes
3. Teachers.
Hence; Epic.
Now, Ms. D just started working here and after she substituted one of my classes I came to the inevitable conclusion that I'd love to see her naked. I also happened to have just started getting into the game so I began to throw some bits to make her interested in me.
It started off with me just being playful with no expectations but her attraction to me has become flagrant.
At intermission during one of my school's plays I saw her in the parking lot. I approached the opportunity and began to chat her up with some friends eventually joining the conversation. I began to play her in that whenever she or I would talk to one another I would linger with eye contact and send strong signals, very much sub/inner game.
This led her to giggle at how cute I was and her attention was unwillingly drawn to me. She even had to break away at one point and jokingly repeat to her self
"C'mon girl. Pull yourself together. He's a student. He's a student. He's a student."
Now, during this she sort of drifted away leaving a couple feet between us when everyone else was standing more closely. Was that an IOD? I interpreted it as she wanted some separation for control's sake, not an actually sign of disinterest.
ANYWHO, my question lies in how would you further play this relationship. I've established attraction so now I need to find a way to separate her from the school setting or isolate her long enough to establish a date.
How can I do this?
How forward should I be about it? (I think she is going to need a lot of mental excuse of innocence so she doesn't feel uncomfortable)
Is there some tricks you guys have in mind?
And am I reading too much into this, should I just follow my gut?
Thanks for reading, and thanks even more for your suggestions gentleman, I look forward to telling you guys about when I F-close my teacher!
Finally, something I have a lot of experience in. Here's what I do -
1. Blur the age line - a 34-year old woman once asked me how old I was, I said "I'm 65, still waiting on that fucking bus pass", eventually k-closed. You need wit, older women love young blood (fola óga means young blood in Irish hahaha), but they don't want the guilt attached to fucking a younger fella. They know well they want to ride your dick, they just want you to not make them feel guilty for it.
2. Make it as if it's a privilege to talk to you - Say things like "if you're lucky enough (to see me in class), I might (fuck your brains out in front of everyone! mwahahahahaaa!) is all fine and grand, but to actually convey this almost regal vibe one must truly believe these statements themselves, you really have to believe and convey you are a highly valued and sought-after person. Say proposterous things, but it's the way you say them that counts, you must have confidence.
For example, I've been chatting up this girl about 5 years older than me whom I know from the town which I used to go to school, as I know I have a disadvantage with age (I'm 17), I DHV alot, I want her to know that I'm not ashamed of my own age but I'm not going to draw attention to my age either, because that will make her think too much and she'll ultimately lose interest at the realization that I'm quite a bit younger than she is. There was a lot of innuendo and flirting going on, and I took full advantage of it, she made it clear she wants to have sex with me. Now, I have this biatch so horny she's coming over to my apartment (for a 17 year old I do have a fucking legendary apartment, I'll admit) on Wednesday literally just to fuck!
my inevitable-fuck closing statement was
"yeah, in between showering, watching paint dry and being a rockstar, I'm a busy person, so you're going to have to make a time which I'm comfortable with" she replied she has a day off on Wednesday so she'll come up to Dublin. Sweet! But notice my subtle-yet-crude neg-DHV, implying I have better things to do while making her choose a time. Expect a lay report, SOOOOON!!!
3. Get her to seek you out - This is your standard hooking procedure, give her a reason to HAVE to talk to you, give her a borrow of something and tell her you WANT it back (DHV) in a few days, and accuse her of hoarding other people's stuff, about to pack her bags and bring her ill-gotten gains to some arse-end of nowhere and build a castle made of stolen Pez dispensers. This will hook the laughing she will inevitably make into that item, she will think of it.
4. Fake adavance - I saw this one in a video from one of David DeAngelo's workshops and put my own little spin on it. What I mean is doing something that makes her think you're hitting on her, then turn it into something completely non-sexual. This will raise her barrier but smash it to the fucking ground, because chances are she won't find any future physical advance, with or without intent to fuck her, threatening.
for example-
Go close to her, perhaps put her hand about 2-3 inches away from the side of her neck as if you are beckoning her neck into a kiss , but not to the point where you are touching her and say, and have that look in your eyes that you want to rip her clothes off.
"you know what, you are so..... in my way"
After this you should smile, perhaps laugh a bit, make it clear you're joking at this point, your body language and facial expression should be open and not particularly non-sexual but not full-on sexual a devilish little smile and a "look" would go well, because that intruiges her.
Of course this would have to be done in context, but you get my drift. (hopefully)
4. Isolate the target - Make a move on your mark when she is not in a situation where she feels professional pressure i.e a situation where there's students or other teachers IS professional pressure. Appeal to the side of an older woman that wants to be wooed while not letting her wrap you around her little finger and not showing your cards. When physical comfort builds through progressive kino, go through the phases and you'll have her in your bed like a fucking shot.
Hope I've helped,
Seán.