Hola, i had alot of thoughts on text game and wrote this up. Its alot cleaner on campuscharmer.com but here it is in its entirety.
http://www.campuscharmer.com/2010/12/dsfa.html
Howdy hoe. So before I begin, if you havn’t read How To Text a Girl You Like Round 1, do so now(TEXT GAME ROUND 1).
http://www.campuscharmer.com/2010/11/ga ... level.html
Discussed in that are
-Way to improve a girls chance of responding to your text when you meet them
-The text graph of extraodanariy awesome accuracy
-What to text a girl that already really likes you
Now today, as promised, I’m gonna be talking about the messier part…texting girls that are open to a first date, borderline, or not interested as well as how to tell which one of these they are. The situation you are in with the girl will determine the type of text you will be sending.
Sooooooooooooo, lets take a horny gander at the most common situations you will get from numbers your get on streets,parties, or clubs and how to give yourself the highest chance of going to dingo town. (code word for hetero intercourse) The most common 3 things you'll see out of girls are
Interested DTF now
Interested but needs some convincing to come fuck
Interested but needs a day to fuck
Not really interested or cares
And my personal favorite HATE YOUR SOUL
Now all these points can be expressed through the STD (whats the STD you ask?)
BEHOLD MY SONS, the graph of Stupendous Text Direction (std). If you read my last article you'll understand what this represents. On this form of the graph, the girls (D) hasn't been determined yet. You need to find this out (if you cant already assume from the night before...most of the time you can) and take appropriate action. ( I will show you how to do this)
(Also, for new readers. D basically is her desire to and willingness to see you.)
Therefore, to give yourself the best best chance of going to pleasure island here are some goals you should have
-Ping her a bit to see how close she is to the come over threshold, if you determine very close, attempt to bump (D) past the threshold and then operate from the last scenario I described in my last text blog post
-If she is somewhat distant from the threshold, but still into you, your goal now becomes laying the groundwork for an effective girl defense crushing date through some text strategies I will show you. (Yes at this point you could simply say “hey want to meet up for drinks”. However, you can lay some groundwork to pre load the date so that you hit it off from the start)
-If she is uneasy, but somewhat open to meeting up, pushing her to the point of comfort where it will seem natural to meet up
WARNING
If she does not like you at all, doesnt remember you, or isnt answering your text there is no magic text to get her to hop in her car and meet you at IHOP...sorry
ALRIGHT HENCE FORTH VISA VEE PER SAY.. You need to start at pinging. This is when we find out how much the girl wants to meet up.
My favorite way to ping is to put us into a lil role playing doogy (that most of the time I set from the night before) you can quickly gauge how much shes gonna play ball very subtlety.
One of my favorite role plays
Me: Your the best text girlfriend ever
Her: ______
Me: Aww how could you do that now we are broken up (leads to organizing a day 2)
(if you dont know this lil routine, well ...go fuck yourself..ill explain it in a sec)
Anyways you can easily tell where a girl is in (D) is by how she responds (again this isn't some carved in stone guide line, there's ALWAYS different situations and I encourage you to do whatever the fuck you want. This is the patterns I see) Here are some typical ping levels
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(COME OVER PING)
If shes shooting back quickly, suggesting meeting up for a date, double texting, going along hard with the lil role playing game...bam! Time to invite her over.. I really gauge it by working some dirty stuff in there if she is responding well. Usually if a girl is a real freak you can pull it out quickly.
EX
Me: Yeah babe, you know what you did. Leaving me handcuffed after we got done in that movie theater was kinky n all, but i'm sick of this shit
(girl either lols or gets more in depth with it)
WHATEVER JUST INVITE HER OVER FOR A MOVIE...USE THE EVOLUTION PHASE SHIFT ROUTINE!!!!
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(DAY 2 PING) Between the come over and meet up threshold, but not close enough to bump up past come over.
So the girl is sorta going along with the role playing, its a fun convo, but shes not gonna be kicking down your door . She needs to get more comfortable with you. You can usually tell shes at this level because she will flirt with you, but isnt asking to see you, and isnt investing to much. She still is clearly into you.
Your goal now is to use the text to lead into the best possible starting point for a day 2. If you keep pushing for a come over, her (D) will not be high enough and you will just drive it lower.
What I will do is make the role play lead to a date. Here is a textbook perfect convo (kinda short format)
Me: So we are getting a divorce now
Her: Good , I dont even care
Me: Im taking the dog....and the car...
Her: Woah now
Me: Okay look maybe theres one way we can settle this
Her: Oh is there
Me: Yeah, your gonna need to meet me at ____ blank bar or drinks. Bring the divorce papers, but maybe if you get me drunk ill tear them up
Her: lol your crazy
Me: lol cool so 7ish sounds good
Her: lol alright
It won't always go that perfect ,but you catch the drift. She likes you. She just needs comfort so no real insane tactics are needed. Now the power of this lil role play is that when she gets to the bar, BAM! you can carry on this funny situation. It'll naturally lead into more fun good conversation and COMPLETELY skip that awkward first part of the date if your inexperienced at dates.
EX
Me: Babe...you know I just wanted to be a trophy husband and chill at the tennis club all day.. But you lost your ambition to make me money. (with a smile.....)
Her: Oh i'm still ambitous
Me: Oh yeah? I really like that in a girl, what drives you?
Her: (Legitimate conversation)
Me: Ha, no way i love that. I'm really into _____ right now, it drives me yada yada
See how the text set this up. If the role playing was going really well, you can easily use it to start of the date holding hands like a couple, kissing like a couple, flirting like a couple...its hilarious
Horrible I hate you ping ( the (D) is below the meet up threshold )
Your goal now is to simply get her to responds and maybe push it to a casual meet up.
Okay so lets look at some ways to tell if a girl is not into and your gonna need to either move on or whip out some fire works
-Doesn't text back (obvious right. Now hot girls phones are literally exploding 24/7 . Its very easy for her to miss your text, and she wont go out of her way to find it unless shes wants your dingo. If she doesn't text back, if you actually care, simply wait a day or two and text her again. If she repeatedly never responds, then this is the sign)
-Responds in very short responses ( lol. Yes. no. uhhh alright... idk...etc) AKA doesnt make an attempt to converse. Be aware some girls are just really stupid and don't know how to hold a conversation.
This is pretty obvious shit right? Some guys don't get it though. Now at this point your kinda screwed and gonna need to get lucky....here is some ways to turn your luck around quickly
-The most low risk is to stop attacking her as a suitor for a bit and just save her number for a invite to a party or out to packed club with friends one night. Maybe she'll pop in one night and you already have a base to work your magic
BUT...THIS IS BORING...HOW DARE SHE NOT TEXT YOU
I ,personally, have a goal to make her talk or get her talking more if she getting boring. I'm not gonna get anywhere playing by social standards. A few of my texts that often get a response spark emotions are
BUKKAKE?
I FUCKING HATE YOU SO HARD RIGHT NOW
Wanna see a picture of me bumb?
Your dad has bad taste in clothes
Fuck you
Can I have my stuff back you serial rapist
Now....will these make a girls like you...hopefully no...will they always work...no...will they sometimes even ruin it even more....yes
BUT ITS ALREADY RUINED
There is a few purposes for these though
A) to surprise her and stand out so much she responds
B) By a stroke of luck she notices you really don't give a fuck and becomes interested (has happened to me)
C)Gets a wtf response, yet pique her curiosity ( I mean honestly who wouldnt at least do a double take if someone sent them a picture of a big cock....very few people...cmon now)
D)Personal comic relief
These will hopefully get her back in the convo, so you can bump her (D) to the meet up threshold.
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Ways to pump her desire up
-Being interesting/funny through text
-Not being needy through text (aka using text to convey value. This can be done by not texting constantly, letting her know your busy etc)
-Being unreactive to some shit girls do on purpose (not texting back, basic shit test, trying to make you mad)
(ALSO NOTE- Its hard to pump a girls desire up to much. Your goal when you meet her is to get it as high as possible. Your really have so much wiggle room with (D) through texting. This of course depends on the situation however)
So that's my 2 cents on texting. Before I jet though here are some things you should really consider
When to text a girl
-Okay look, I know theres 100 guys who will say IM FUCKING ALPHA I TEXT WHEN I WANT...now while their peiners are very big, lets use common sense and look at some times its dumb to text if your looking for a response or to make plans.
-10pm to 5 am to have a conversation. If your texting her at these times its to get her to come over or meeting her somewhere. Have you ever been around a hot girl around these times...Their phones are go ape shit, they usually don't even carry them unless they are expecting a call.
So if you just met miss right and got her number, don't get butt hurt if she misses your text at 2 am as every person whose ever met her spam calls her phone trying to find out where shes at.
-5am to 11ish.... Okay she was out partying the night before, do you think shes gonna be dapper and in a chatty mood...maybe...keyword maybe...I don't answer my phone in the mornings
In my opinion, setting up plans with a girl is best done from noonish to 7 pm at night. They are usually by their phone, wide awake, in a chatty mood and not to busy.
BY ALL MEANS text when ever you feel its right, this is just stuff to consider
-Having interesting texts at first
Okay look if she wants your dick or you had a strong interaction, it doesn't really matter. But if she got shitfaced the night before and barely remembers you a simple
Hey...
Hows your day going
What are you doing
Hows that going
text chain is not going to peak her interest. You gotta remember the night before, you met her in wild crazy slut mode... most girls are in bad moods like the rest of society during the day.. If I know the interaction was weak I make sure its something that peaks her interest.
-----Ways to ruin it through text
Texting way to much...its completely okay not to answer her texts or send back one word responses. If she doesnt respond to your text, you dont need to send 3 more till she texts back...thats annoying
Trying to force a date or meet up to much. If your to I MUST SEE YOU NOW, and shes not to that point yet...well its just kinda weird. Try a gauge and ask her out on the high point of texts convo or phone calls
Sending constantly boring texts
Do you like getting a boring text when your in the middle of something....
All guys keep in mind this is just a rough reference, you gotta develop a gut instinct about it. Most of the this stuff just happens naturally when you dont really care any more. But until you reach that point I think this is good reference...KEYWORD REFERENCE..
Dont be like....fuck she sent back one word....BUKKAKE BITCH!!!!! and then send me hate mail by about how your cherish doesnt enjoy mass amounts of semen on her face.
CHAT