So I meet this girl last weekend, wait a day and FB add her wait a day and Message her on FB saying Id like to get together and included my number. She soon thereafter FB chats me, we make plans for two days after that. We subsuquiently exchange a few text before our date (she initiated the texts).

Date goes well, it was coffee that lasted 4.5 hours until she had another engagement. recived a text a few hours later saying she had a good time, then I fucked up.

I asked if I could see her again (should have waited a day or two) AND after 15 mins of no response I say "apparently not" she responds with I dont know what next weeks schedule will look like and the conversation ended soon after.

I initiated the next two days which were both short convos. So I decided to give it a couple days. Today is day 2 of no contact, whats the game plan now?

Thanks for any help.

Hey man your letting this chick get to your head (as this is very easy to let happen haha) I think if she hung out with you in a coffee shop for just under 5 hours... she's obviously interested in you and I don't feel as tho you've lost her cause of your texting game. She's playing the texting game better than you are... so start playing back, even better!

I will say tho that you probably shouldn't have said "apparently not," that sounds kinda beta male to me... kinda desperate, but your fine dude.

as for the game plan now I would invite her to something your already doing... bring her into your world... for example: "hey my buddies and I decided to have a BBQ at the park at 3:30 this saturday, I think my friends might like you [bringing her into your world, their your friends, they should approve of her, not vice versa]... I'll only let u come if you promise not to embarrass me by being dorky "

Does this help at all? I'm sure the girl is just throwing her flake test's at you to see if you crumble... just stay composed and remember to lead, your the prize, let her realize it.

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